11 Ways to tell if your girlfriend is bisexual and proud of it
When you’re in a relationship with someone you want to know who they really are because you love them and want to build a life with them. Sexual orientation is an important part of life and you want to know if you’re dating a bisexual woman or a bi curious one because you want to be accepting and supportive. Here are some ways you can tell if you’re dating a bisexual woman who’s proud of it.
1) She checks out other women
Women always check out other women but a bi curious one will do it in a different way. A straight woman will notice another woman’s clothes or makeup because it gives her ideas on things that she can do to spice up her appearance. Her focus will be more intense and she will let her gaze linger long enough for the other woman to know that she’s interested in her.
2) She sees a woman’s sex appeal
You’ll notice that the way she talks about a woman’s sexual appeal is the same as she talks about a man’s and this is because her attraction to them are similar. She’ll use more sexual terms when talking about women and use small gestures like blushing or playing with her hair to show it’s turning her on. You’ll understand where she’s coming from because you’ve felt the same way about women before.
3) It’s not always a crush
A lot of women have “girl crushes” on other women but they’re more platonic and about admiration. With someone who’s bisexual or bi curious it’s more than a crush, they want to have an actual loving, sexual relationship with them. Their feelings are more serious and go deeper than most crushes and they spend lots of time fantasizing about being with them. They won’t be happy with just a friendship and will cautiously flirt to see if they feel the same way.
4) She uses lesbian dating sites
If she’s interested in women then she’ll use straight dating sites like AdultFriendFinder to find men and lesbian dating sites to find women because that will give her the best chance of being successful at meeting people that match her desires. Ask her which dating sites she’s used in the past and tell her that you’re asking for a friend or co-worker who’s single and mentioned wanting to try online dating so she doesn’t feel like you’re judging her. Remember which ones she mentions and see if any of them are lesbian dating sites because that means she’s at least thought about being with a woman.
5) She wants another woman
If she’s proud of her sexuality then she’s going to be open about wanting to be with another woman, either dating one or having a threesome with one. She isn’t doing this to turn you on or make herself seem sexier, she’s doing it because she wants a woman the same way that she wants you. She’s open about it because it’s part of who she is and wants you to accept her so you need to be supportive and let her know that you’re fine with her exploring her sexuality.
6) She watches lesbian porn
If she’s interested in women then she’ll want to watch lesbian porn because it fuels her fantasies about being with another woman. You can find out what kind of porn she likes by watching it as a couple and using it to start a night of hot sex. Let her choose what to watch and see if it’s mainly female performers being shown. She’ll be more likely to choose stuff that appeals to her instead of you because she’s trying to get aroused and knows what she likes so she’ll put her needs ahead of yours.
7) She dresses up to hang out with girlfriends
Women like to dress nicely when they’re hanging out with their girlfriends but if she’s dressing up extra sexy then it might be because she’s got something going on with one of them. She’s either trying to get their attention or they’ve already started flirting and she wants to look good for her friend. You’ll notice that the outfits she wears are similar to how she dresses when she’s going out on a date with you and that’s because she sees it as a similar event.
8) She identifies with the LGBTQ community
Straight people support the LGBTQ community but people who identify with it are even strong supporters who are more obvious about it. If your girlfriend is bisexual and proud of it she’ll go to pride events, join gay/straight alliances, mention being a member of the community and wear an item like a pin or necklace that has either the bisexual flag or gay flag. She won’t hide her support and will tell you why she supports it when you ask her.
9) She’s interested in a certain woman
She’s definitely bisexual or bi curious if she’s interested in a certain woman and makes it clear that it’s in a sexual way. she’ll talk about her often and you’ll notice that it’s in a different way than she talks about her other friends. She’ll talk about how much she loves spending time with her, how beautiful she is or what she likes about her. At first you’ll just think she’s gone crazy about a new friend because she’s not “like that” but then realize her feelings are getting serious and that there’s an intimacy between them.
10) She mentions being bi curious
If she’s unsure about how much you’d support her if she was interested in women she might drop hints about being bi curious to see how you’d react. She’ll casually say something like “I think it’s normal for a woman to be bi curious, women are sexy and I might want to date one” She’s doing this to let you know what she’s thinking but keeping it vague enough that she can say she doesn’t mean it if you freak out.
11) She’s had experiences with women
Once you’re in a serious relationship you start talking about your past and sharing intimate things that you keep private until there’s trust between you. You can find out if she’s had experiences with women by asking her if she’s ever done anything kinky or something that would shock you. She’ll be open about her experiences if you share
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