9 Practical Valentine’s Day ideas for hooking up with a single woman
Valentine’s Day is coming and if you don’t have plans yet there’s still time to find a single woman to hook up with, you just have to make an effort at meeting them. You can do the obvious things like use online dating sites and hit up the bars or do something that you might not think of doing on Valentine’s Day like go to the gym or mall. There are many places where you can meet a single woman and seduce her into having a hook up with you.
1) Go to a Valentine’s Day party
A Valentine’s Day party is a good way to meet a single woman and hook up because it’s a fun atmosphere and there will be drinks to help everybody loosen up. You can ask your friends or co-workers if they’re having one or see if there’s any local attractions that are having a party. You don’t want to come across as desperate so spend the first half of the party having fun and socializing while you casually check out who’s there. Pick out one or two people who interest you and get to know them better. When one of them shows an interest in you, you can start flirting and making it clear that you want to spend the rest of the night with them.
2) Try speed dating or a blind date
You can have a hook up with a single woman by slipping introductions and going straight for a date. Valentine’s Day is a popular time for speed dating events and these are perfect to find a hook up because everyone’s there to meet other singles and there’s an expectation of things going further if there’s a connection. You can find a local speed dating event by looking online or checking with local bars since this is where these types of event usually take place. If there aren’t any speed dating events happening in your town you can always ask one of your friends to set you up on a blind date. Your friend will know the type of person you’re interested in and can find the perfect date for you to spend Valentine’s Day with.
3) Use an online dating site
Online dating sites are mostly for people who are looking to hook up and Valentine’s Day is when all the single people are on them looking for someone to keep them company. There are lots of free ones to join so make a profile, upload a couple of pictures then start messaging people who interest you. If you’re diligent about following up with those who reply back you can quickly move things from online to meeting in person.
4) Go to the gym
People go to the gym when they want to burn off energy or escape from their daily life for awhile and on Valentine’s Day single people are going to be focused on the fact that they’re single. This isn’t something they want to dwell on so they’ll go to the gym to distract themselves and feel better by working on their physical health and appearance. When they’re taking a break you can flirt with them and see if they’re interested in burning off energy in another way.
5) Have breakfast at a local cafe
Treating yourself to breakfast at a local cafe can lead to you meeting a single woman who you’ll end up having a hook up with. They’ll want to perk themselves up by having a nice breakfast so if you see someone sitting by themselves you can go over to them and ask if you can sit with them. Break the ice by saying you’re glad you don’t have to start Valentine’s Day alone because you’ll be ending it alone because this lets them know you’re single too and the conversation will go on from there but be sure to make plans to meet later on for a date.
6) Go for drinks after work
You probably work with people who aren’t in relationships so figure out which of your co-workers is a single woman and ask her if she wants to go for drinks after work. You can ask a few other co-workers out and have it be a group event if you don’t want to make it obvious you like her and choose a bar that’s close by so she can’t use the excuse that it’s too far away. Have a couple of drinks laugh and have fun then see if she wants to take things further.
7) Find local events for singles
Most local businesses and attractions take advantage of the excitement of Valentine’s Day and have events for single people too because they’ll want to celebrate as well. Find out which places in your area are having a party or group dinner for singles and make plans to go. Be friendly and outgoing because a single woman wants to date that kind of guy and you’ll get her attention if you make an effort to get to know her.
8) Check out the food court at the mall
Retail therapy is something that a lot of women engage in and the ones who are in relationships will be sending Valentine’s Day with their sweetheart while the single ones will be shopping to try and take their mind off the holiday. You can casually strike up a conversation with a single woman without seeming desperate or like a creep by trying to figure out what to eat in the food court by asking their opinion on what’s good or by asking to share a table with them. You can joke that this is the closest you’ll get to a Valentine’s Day date and see where things go from there.
9) Go clubbing or bar hopping
You have a good chance of having a hook up with a single woman by going clubbing or bar hopping because everyone at these places will be drinking and in the mood for having fun. You can go to a couple of popular places in town and check out who’s there until you find someone who’s interested in you. Take some time loosening up and getting to know each other, maybe dance a bit too close to make it clear you want her then suggest going somewhere more private.
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