10 Practical tips for having sex in a car
Car sex may sound like a fun idea but it’s going to be awkward and a possible failure if you don’t do some planning ahead of time. A car isn’t a very sexy place and it probably doesn’t contain items you need to have comfortable sex so you need to think about what you can do to make it a better experience instead of hoping that the novelty of having car sex will be enough to satisfy both of you. By knowing some practical tips you can have a great time trying something new and it can be a way for you to occasionally spice up your sex life or have a memorable hook up.
1) Bring blankets for comfort and snuggling
Car sex can be uncomfortable because you’re in a confined space and the seats tend to be sturdy so it’s a good idea to bring a couple of blankets. You can use these to pad the seats so they’re more comfortable and you won’t be distracted trying to move around to find a good spot to stay in. A big, warm blanket is also good for after sex because you can snuggle up with your partner under it and calm down together before putting your clothes back on.
2) Wear clothes that are easy to take off
You need to wear clothes that are appropriate for car sex because you don’t want to waste time fumbling around. You want your clothes to give easy access to nudity so avoid wearing underwear and wear clothes that are easy to remove. If you’re a guy you can wear a t-short and shorts or trousers and if you’re a woman you can wear a dress. The less you wear the faster you can get to the fun stuff and if you’re about to be unexpectedly caught you can quickly put your clothes back on so they won’t see what you were really doing.
3) Don’t throw your clothes around
When you’re having car sex with a hook up part of the thrill is the risk of getting caught. It’s exciting to think about but it’s something that can happen and in some places you can be charged with indecent exposure. You don’t want this to happen to you so when things are starting to get wild you should take a second to slow down and be mindful of where you’re putting your clothes. You want them to be in easy reach and be separated from your hook up’s clothes so you automatically know which ones are yours.
4) Clean your car ahead of time
You should plan to have car sex ahead of time because this gives you a chance to clean your car. Your hook up isn’t going to be in the mood if they’re surrounded by old coffee cups and fat food wrappers so make the area more appealing. Clean the front seat and back seat of your car by getting rid of any garbage lying around and any items like bags that you don’t need in there and brush or vacuum the seats so they look and feel clean.
5) Make car sex fun but fast
Since car sex is done in a public place there’s a chance you’re going to get caught so you don’t want this to be a love making session, you want it to be a hot hook up. This means sex is fun but fast so start with foreplay while you’re still driving to your destination but don’t do anything too distracting. When you’re at a red light you can slide your hand over your partner’s thigh or while driving they can touch themselves or lean close to you and tell you how bad they want you.
6) Make sure you have lots of room
It’s good to have plenty of space when you have car sex because you don’t want to stop to move from the front seat to back seat or spend time reclining the seats. Decide ahead of time where you’ll be having sex and arrange the car then. If you’re having sex in the front then recline those seats and try to do it in the passenger side so the steering wheel doesn’t get in the way. If you’re having it in the back then move forward the front seats and lay flat the back ones.
7) Look up sex positions before you go
Certain sex positions are going to be difficult to do in the car so spend some time looking online for ideas of what can work for you. If you’re having it in the front seat then have her drive so she can park then slide onto your lap and ride you. If you’re in the back seat then missionary or doggy may be good to try. Some sex activities, like oral sex or fingering, can be done regardless of where you are in the car.
8) Carefully select the time and location
You want an area that doesn’t get a lot of passersby and you should choose to do this in the evening or at night because this is when most people are home. Once you know when and where you’re doing this spend a couple of nights driving by at that particular time to make sure it’s as private as you think it is.
9) Create a sensual mood
A car isn’t a very romantic place but you can create a more sensual mood for the experience. Car sex is going to make you hot and sweaty but if you’re doing it late at night you’re going to cool down quickly so roll the windows down only an inch or so. This will help regulate the temperature and you can always snuggle up if it’s too cold for you. Playing music in the background can also set the mood so choose something that’s soft and quiet.
10) Items for clean up
There’s always some mess involved when you’re having sex so you should bring a couple of items to clean up with. You should have a towel to lie on because this will keep your seats clean, a couple of towels to wipe you and your partner clean afterwards, a bottle of water plus a hairbrush to make yourself look presentable again.
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