7 great tips for successful sex with your partner
Sex with your partner can become boring over time or you may not be sure if they’re happy with the sex life you have which leads to not being very successful in the bedroom. If you want to get laid with your partner more often then you might want to consider trying a new approach. It doesn’t take a lot of effort to make sure you have a great night of sex with your partner, all you need is a few good ideas.
1) Start with romance
Women love romance so if you want to get laid by a happy, enthusiastic woman then try being romantic more often. Instead of going right for sex take things slower. Running her a bubble bath or giving her a massage may seem too cliche but it really isn’t. It shows her that you’re interested in showing her a good time and caring about making things special for her.
2) Set the mood
The way you set the mood depends on what kind of couple you are. If you’re into the naughtier side of things you could set the mood by watching a porno together or lay out your sex toys while telling her what you’re going to do to her. If you’re into the gentler side of things try dimming the lights, burning some candles and listening to soft music.
3) Use foreplay
Foreplay often gets rushed or forgotten once a couple has been together for awhile. Take the time to turn each other on and let the pleasure and anticipation build before moving things on to sex. Kissing and touching can go a long towards looking forward to sex plus the more aroused you are the better it physically feels because your body is more eager for it.
4) Use toys
Using toys on each other can be beneficial to your sex life in a few ways: it can give you a new sensation during sex, they can prolong sex and they can add excitement to sex. There are fun toys like vibrators and feathers to add a gentle touch or Warternberg Wheels to add a kinky sensation. Toys can make sex last longer because you’ll be spending more time using the toys to see what you and your partner like the most. Toys add excitement to the bedroom because it’s something new and it’s something that you’re trying together with your partner.
5) Try dirty talk
Try doing dirty talk with your partner and see if it turns them on. Start slowly at first and stay away from anything too dirty until you know if they enjoy it. You don’t want to upset them or make them feel awkward. You can try to gauge their feelings about it by whispering “Do you like that?” Say it in a sexy, teasing way so it doesn’t take you out of the moment.
6) Explore your fantasies
Get to know each other better by sharing your fantasies. This not only makes you feel emotionally closer but it also allows you to explore new kinks. It could be something simple like a roleplay or something a bit more out there like having sex in public.
7) Try a new position
There are a lot of different sex positions out there but most people only try a couple of them. Look up a few sex positions online either by yourself or with your partner to see if there’s any they’d like to try. It can add excitement to your sex life but it can also make sex feel better or help her achieve orgasm easier. For example, some women prefer doggy style because they orgasm easier due to deeper penetration.
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