9 Reasons older women are dating younger men
It’s common for an older man to be with a younger women but now it’s starting to become more acceptable for older women to be with someone younger. This means it’s happening more often and understanding the reasons for this will help de-stigmatize it. They know that dating younger men can give them benefits they can’t get from someone their own age, like a high libido or less baggage, and this drives them to go after what they want. This is a trend that’s here to stay because it’s beneficial, fulfilling and enjoyable.
1) They want more sex
Women know that younger men have higher libidos and they can’t get enough sex so this makes them appealing. When women reach a certain age they know what they want and date men who can give it to them so they hook up with someone younger. In this type of situation it’s a sex based relationship with some companionship because they usually only see each other when she’s in the mood. Not only is she getting more sex but she gets better sex because young men want to prove themselves and try their best to make sure she enjoys every second of it.
2) It makes them feel younger
Older women can be self-conscious or depressed about their age and being around people their own age just reinforces that feeling. This makes them want to seek out younger people to be around, especially men because they want to feel young, sexy and desirable. They can only get this from younger men and dating them helps make them feel validated. It brings a spark of youthfulness back to their life and they throw themselves into the relationship because they like how they feel around him. It gives older women a chance to feel young again and have a chance to live out their youthful romance fantasies that they thought were lost to the past.
3) Younger men are more willing to learn
It’s normal to get set in your ways as you age so the older you are the less likely you’re going to have patience or be interested in learning something new. Older women want to be with someone who is willing to learn how to pleasure them so they’re more selective when choose partners. Before dating they pay attention to how he acts and if he seems like the type of person who cares about his partner, is good at expressing himself and is attentive during conversations. Those are signs of a good lover and she feels confident that she can talk to him during sex so she can show him what she likes.
4) They’re less likely to want commitment
Older women have a lot of experience with being in a committed relationship and it’s possible she’s not interested in that anymore or for her next relationship. She wants something more casual but may not be comfortable saying that to someone her own age because she’s worried about being judged. Young people tend to enjoy casual hook ups more and aren’t ready to settle down so she doesn’t have to worry about things going too far. She can make it clear she’s not looking for marriage or children so he’s not wondering about her end goal and after that they can have a fun, relaxed relationship.
5) They have less baggage
Emotional baggage is a natural part of life because it comes with experiences but usually the younger you are the less baggage you have. Older women have enough baggage of their own and don’t want to be dragged down by their partner’s. This is why they’re interested in dating younger men because they find their positivity and emotional freedom attractive. It gives everything a brighter mood which makes things go smoother because this atmosphere puts her in a better frame of mind. When it eventually ends she has fond memories of what happened and she wants to keep on dating younger men.
6) Taboo is exciting
Taboo is exciting and older women may be intrigued by the idea of doing something a little bit naughty. This can be a variety of things, including a hot romance with a man they know is too young for them. They’re aroused by the idea of this forbidden love and when it’s something they can really experience it’s easy for them to get hooked. It gives them a rush and becomes all they can think about since deep down they know their friends or family would be shocked at what she’s doing. She wants better sex with him and wants to see just how far they can take their new romance so she feels more confident about pursuing this kind of love.
7) They’re in better shape
There’s a big emphasis on having a gym body and young men take it seriously. They want to look good and make an effort to stay in shape so they’re visually more attractive. It’s a nice change from what older women are used to which is why this is where their attention is drawn to. She can’t resist him and they have better sex because her excitement overrides her nervousness. He’s the kind of man she fantasizes about and this is her chance to finally have him.
8) Older women want a wild memory
A midlife crisis can happen to men and women and this sometimes results in a desire to act out and do something defiant. They want to feel young again and like they’re really experiencing all that life has to offer instead of being just another middle aged person. Older women want a wild memory and seek out a man who can help them achieve this. This is usually a one time thing because it’s not the kind of lifestyle she wants full-time, she just wants a taste of the wild side.
9) They can give new experiences
Young people are adventurous, open-minded and they love having new experiences because it shows them more of the world. This is why older women love being with someone younger. They know that when they’re dating and there’s an age difference there’s a good chance he takes the initiative and suggests trying a sex position or scenario that neither of them have done before. She’s with him because she wants to experience something new and his naturally youthful curiosity can help her push her boundaries.
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
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