What do men think women are really looking for on adult dating sites?
When it comes to adult dating men and women sometimes have the wrong idea about what the opposite gender is looking for. This can lead to them making mistakes or hooking up with the wrong type of person. Not all women want to fall in love or hook up with a guy who looks like a male model, sometimes a man who acts like himself is all she wants.
There’s a popular idea that all women want in life is to fall in love with Mr. Right and live happily ever after in wedded bliss. Not everyone woman wants to get married and some women on sex dating sites just want a man to keep them company. Going out for dinner then going back to your place is enough to make them happy and they’re willing to wait and see if there’s anything more to the relationship. Over time their feelings may get stronger and they’ll start thinking about marriage but it’s usually one of the last things they’re looking for when it comes to meeting men online.
Another idea that men have about women when it comes to adult dating is that they’re only interested in a committed relationship. Some women feel that way but some of them don’t want to commit to someone and would prefer a sex based relationship. A friends with benefits relationship or a one night stand is enough to satisfy them because they want to keep their options open instead of being with one person. They’d prefer going out with a man who feels the same way so that when things end no one gets their feelings hurt.
A lot of men in the media such as on TV shows and movies are shown as only being successful at hooking up with women if they’re good looking and successful. This makes men think that women on sex dating sites are looking for a tall, sexy man with a great career. It’s nice to hook up with a good looking man but most women just want a nice, sweet guy that’s fun to be with. Women are willing to overlook physical flaws in men like shortness, hair loss and a couple of extra pounds if she thinks he’s a good person. If you can make her laugh and feel attractive then your looks won’t matter.
Men also tend to think that women are looking for a man who will give her lots of compliments and attention because she wants to know you want only her. Everyone knows that people on dating sites will be messaging a couple of different people so they try and act like they only really like on person. Too many men will turn women off by saying all sorts of things about how pretty she is and how they want only her. This can feel overwhelming to a woman and she’ll want to hook up with someone who doesn’t pressure her or make her feel like he’s some kind of weirdo who’s obsessed with her. One or two compliments is enough to tell her that you’re interested in her.
Every woman has different wants and needs so you need to take the time get to know her before you can understand what she’s looking for.
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
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