7 Things women secretly want in bed
Women are shy when it comes to telling men what they really want in bed because it’s seen as being unladylike. They’re supposed to like kissing and making love but most women want other things too. You need to know what they want so you can give it to them.
1) More kissing
Women want more kissing, especially during foreplay. This isn’t just kissing on the lips, they want you to kiss them all over their body. Start at their lips and work your way down their body, giving attention to their breasts before sliding your mouth down their stomach and to their pussy.
2) More foreplay
Women want more foreplay and they want it to be hot. They want you to focus on turning them on to the point where they think they’re losing their mind. Don’t rush into sex and spend some time focusing on making her feel good by kissing her, touching her and making her cum before you get start getting into things as a couple. Give her oral or finger her to make her cum so that the second time she cums with you during sex it’s stronger.
3) Sex toys
Women like using sex toys but they’re afraid of upsetting their partner so try surprising her one night. If you know she has a vibrator then use it on her. Start out by teasing her with it by sliding it up her thigh before gently rubbing it over her pussy then put it where she wants it. If she doesn’t have any then buy one and tell her you thought you could try something different tonight.
4) Dirty talk
Talk dirty to her and bring things to a new level. She’s probably not used to you talking like that and it’ll add some excitement to the night. Make it sexy instead of vulgar because you don’t want to turn her off. Women love hearing how much you want them so say something like “I can’t wait to fuck you.” or “You look so fucking hot tonight.” If she likes it then you can always get dirtier.
5) Domination
Women love men who know what they want and aren’t afraid to take it so give her a little domination in bed. All women have limits and some like it kinkier than others so start things slow by pinning her arms down during sex or by telling her what you want her to do. You could also start off in a teasing way to ease her into it then get rougher by giving her a playful then hitting her harder.
6) Double Penetration
The feeling of being full of dick during sex can be pleasurable for a lot of women and you don’t always need a third person to do this. You could have her wear a butt plug during sex to give her the feeling of having double penetration. The rocking motion during sex will make her feel the butt plug inside her and it will tease her and give her more stimulation.
7) Hair pulling
A hint of pain can add an excitement to sex and hair pulling is something that’s rough but also playful. It’s a way to spice things up without going too far so make sure you’re not yanking strands out. Hold a sizable chunk of her hair in your hand and tug on it during sex, especially if you’re doing it doggy style. It’s a good way to add pain while still being equals during sex.
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