7 Ways to last longer during sex
A lot of men suffer from premature ejaculation and are embarrassed about it because they think there’s something wrong with them and that they’re not pleasing their partner. They want to find ways to last longer during sex but they’re not comfortable asking someone for advice but that’s okay because help can be found online.
1) Masturbate before sex
Unlike women, men need time in between orgasms to recuperate so it could help you if you masturbated before you had sex. This will stop you from being too eager and in need of being touched when you’re in bed so things will go slower. Do it a few hours before your date so that it will take you longer to build up your arousal and get to the point of being ready to cum again.
2) Role-play
Trying a role-play can help you last longer because it’s something that takes time and it doesn’t always have to involve physical stimulation. You could have her be a stripper and you watch as she gives you a striptease or you could be a bad boy who needs to be spanked. There are different scenarios to act out so choose one that doesn’t involve playing with your penis because this will increase the amount of time needed to get to the point of having an orgasm.
3) Try new positions
Trying a new position during sex can help you last longer because you’re putting your attention elsewhere. The time that it takes to get into the new position and to find a rhythm that both of you enjoy can be enough for you to calm down. Certain positions also put less stimulation on your most sensitive spots so experiment and see if you can find one that works for you.
4) Use numbing products
You can buy different numbing agents at adult stores in creams or sprays and you can try different brands until you find one that you like. A spray is easy to apply but you need to be careful so that you only get it on your penis because it can be messy.
5) Go slower during sex
If you feel like you’re about to have an orgasm then try slowing down. Focus on your partner by giving her kisses or touches while you get yourself under control. Not only will this help you but it will also make sex better for her because she’s getting more attention from you which will turn her on even more.
6) Practice edging
Edging is when you bring yourself to the point of having an orgasm then stopping, keeping yourself on edge for a while before starting again. You can practice this by yourself when masturbating to help teach yourself how to hold off an orgasm. Over time you will learn when you’re getting too close and your body will know it’s time to slow down.
7) Put pressure on the penis
You can hold off from ejaculating by putting pressure on the base of your penis because it reduces blood flow. You can do this by using a cock ring or by squeezing it with your hand. The method you use will depend on the sex act you’re doing and what’s appropriate for the moment.
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