7 Rules to keep it casual
If you want a casual relationship then there are certain rules you need to follow so that she doesn’t get the wrong idea and start taking things seriously.
1) Have dirty sex
The best thing about having sex with someone that you’re not close with is having hot and dirty sex. The relationship is new and since it’s casual it doesn’t matter if you say or do the wrong thing. It won’t last long so don’t be afraid to explore your kinks and fantasies with her. Use this relationship as a way to push your boundaries and help her explore her desires as well.
2) Don’t get emotionally involved
Emotions are the difference between a casual relationship and a serious one. Don’t get emotionally involved and if you think you might have feelings for her then it’s time to end things. Think of her as someone that’s in your life for a short period of time and try not to focus too much on her good qualities because then you’ll start coming up with reasons for why you should be dating her.
3) Don’t think about the future
A casual relationship only lasts for a short period of time; it’s a fling and nothing more so never make plans for the future. Only think about the next time the two of you will be hooking up and don’t get jealous if she’s seeing other people. Don’t expect to celebrate anniversaries or birthdays with her and never think about dating long term or moving in together.
4) Don’t let them in your personal life
Keep things distant between you and you partner by making sure they stay out of your personal life. Don’t introduce them to family or friends and don’t talk about personal things such as what’s going on at work and things that are going on in your social life. Keep your relationship with them separate and don’t invite them to parties where you know your friends will be. Your relationship should be about the two of you only because the more involved in your life they are the harder it will be to break up with them.
5) Have relationship rules
You want your partner to know what to expect from the relationship so you don’t hurt their feelings. Talk to them about setting boundaries and make sure they know that you only want a casual relationship. Tell them you want it to be fun, mostly about sex and that you’re not looking for anything long term. You also need to decide if it’s acceptable for either of you to see other people or if it will be an exclusive relationship.
6) Don’t act like a couple
Doing things that a couple would such as going out on a date, paying for her dinner or saying “I love you.” is a great way to cross the line into making things more serious. If you start treating her like a girlfriend then she’s going to develop stronger feelings for you and you’ll end up hurting her when things end. Instead keep a distance with her so she never forgets that it’s just a casual relationship and nothing more.
7) Keep it all about sex
A casual relationship isn’t about building a life with someone; it’s about having fun and sex with no strings attached. Both of you have a great time and no one gets hurt when things end. Keep it focused on sex and only see each other when you’re in the mood to have it instead of hanging out and acting like friends. When you’re done having sex don’t spend the night because she might get the wrong idea and if she wants to meet you at other times then tell her you have other plans.
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