7 Tips to improve bedroom communication
Things can slow down in the bedroom if you don’t make an effort to keep things fresh and often this involves communication. Just making a few changes in the way you communicate can lead to things becoming more exciting so don’t be afraid to talk dirty or show your partner just how much you still love them.
1) Talk dirty
Start out slow and use a low sexy voice to get them in the mood. Tell them what you want them to do and show them that you’re in charge by saying things like “I want you to…” or “You’re mine tonight.”
2) Have a romantic dinner
A nice romantic dinner is a good way for both of you to relax and spend time together. Light some candles, sip some wine and talk about the night ahead. Make your partner feel sexy by telling them that you’ve been thinking about them all day and can’t wait to get them in the bedroom.
3) Remember the past
Talking about the past is a way to share memories and relive some moments that made you feel good. Lying in bed together bring up a moment you enjoyed by saying something like “I was just thinking about our first date and you kissed me.” Turn to them and start kissing them, bring each moment back to life to show your partner how they made you happy.
4) Ask them what they like
Your partner might be shy when it comes to talking about sex so help them by bringing it up first. Ask them what they like in bed and be casual abut it so they don’t feel like you’re judging them. Listen to them and talk about what you like as well. They’ll see that it’s okay to talk about these things with you and will be more likely to bring it up in the future.
5) Write a love letter
Sometimes it’s easier to write your feelings down than it is to say it so think about writing a love letter. Talk about why you love them and what you hope will happen in the future. Start off romantic then lead into why you find them sexy and what you love doing with them in bed. Leave it on their pillow and give them time to read it before making your move later that night in the bedroom.
6) Use body language
Communication isn’t just what you say, it’s also what you do so use body language to get your feelings across. Make eye contact with them and run your eyes over their body, show them that you still find them attractive. Stroke their hair and caress their body as you tell them how much they turn you on.
7) Focus on emotions, not actions
Women tend to get nervous when it comes to sex because they’re vulnerable and some have difficulty having an orgasm. By focusing on what she’s feeling instead of what the two of you are doing together it can make her feel more relaxed and open in the bedroom. Ask if she likes what you’re doing and tell her how she makes you feel while touching her to make it a more rounded experience.
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