How to finger a woman like a Pro
There’s more to fingering a woman than pumping your finger in and out of her until she cums. You need to take your time and tease her until the feeling builds to a point where she can’t take it anymore. Women like different things during masturbation, some like lots of clit stimulation while others don’t. Her personal preference is important to know because you’ll want to touch her the way she enjoys so see if you can figure out during sex what she responds to more.
The first thing you need to do before you start fingering her is make sure that your fingernails are ready for it. They need to be trimmed otherwise you could scratch her and that’s going to hurt. Don’t trim them the same day as you finger her because the cut line on your nails will be sharp. The best time to do it is a day or two before so that your nail edges have time to get dull. It’s also a god idea to wash your hands because it’ll stop any germs from getting in her.
Even though women naturally get wet when they’re turned on she might not be wet enough for penetration so lube could be used to stop her from being uncomfortable. It will also help you slide more smoothly inside her which will help her become more aroused. The best finger to start with is your index or middle finger because they tend to be more nimble and are longer than your other fingers so you can get deeper penetration.
Take your time making your way down her body because this will make her wetter. Kiss her neck and breasts as you run your hands over her until she’s moaning and getting into it. Slide your hand down to her pussy and stroke her outer lips until she’s lifting her hips and aching for more. Enter her slowly and move your finger in and out of her but don’t go all the way out because you want to have constant contact. Brush over her pussy walls and listen to the noises she’s making to know what she likes you to do. You can add a second finger and gradually pump them faster until she’s getting close to the edge.
When she’s wet and at the point of needing to cum you should slid your finger up to her clit and put all of your attention on it. Direct touch might be too much for her so test her reaction by rubbing circles around it. If she’s okay with that then slide your finger over it, giving it constant touches and get into a steady rhythm. Women need this to cum so don’t stop and only slow down as she starts to cum. She’s going to be sensitive at this moment so decrease the pressure you’re using but stay in that spot because it will make her orgasm stronger and last longer.
To finger a woman like a pro you need to make it all about her pleasure. Don’t do anything that can cause her pain and focus on other parts of her body so she can get stimulation from different areas. Kiss and touch her most sensitive areas like her neck and breasts before finally touching her where she wants it. Touch her outer lips before gently entering her and finger her with steady strokes to build up the desire. Spend lots of time on her clit and don’t stop until she cums because you want her completely satisfied.
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