11 Warning signs you should never ignore when you start dating
When you’re meeting people from dating sites like AdultFriendFinder there are some red flags that you shouldn’t ignore because it makes the relationship more likely to fail.
1) They’re short tempered
A short temper is a red flag that you need to take seriously because this shows that they have issues and it could turn into an abusive relationship. You’re going to feel stressed out because you’re going to have to put up with their attitude.
2) They talk about their ex
Talking about their ex means that they’re not over them yet and are using you as a distraction. This is also a sign of no respect for you because they don’t care about making you jealous or feeling unimportant to them.
3) They compliment you a lot
Compliments are nice but if that’s all they give you then they have an unrealistic idea of who you are. You should be dating a person who can be objective and see the good and bad sides to you because this means they see the real you.
4) They don’t respect your boundaries
Boundaries are important and when someone ignores them it shows a lack of respect. If you tell your partner that you don’t like something and they do it anyways then they don’t really care about your feelings.
5) They move fast
A relationship takes time to grow into a stable one and someone who moves too fast is usually on a different page than their partner. They’ll have an end goal, usually marriage or kids, and they’ll do anything to get what they want.
6) They want you all to themselves
No one should ever try to keep you all to themselves while cutting you off from your family and friends. This isn’t healthy and over time you’re going to become dependent on them. You’re going to feel alone and it’ll be harder to end the relationship when you’ve had enough.
7) They don’t listen
Someone who loves you will want to listen to you and be supportive because this is part of being in a good relationship. If they cut you off during conversations or don’t listen when you need to talk about something important then it’s a one sided relationship.
8) They flirt with other people
You shouldn’t date someone who flirts with other people or still uses dating sites like Victoria Milan to chat, even if they swear they’ll never cheat and it’s harmless fun. If they were committed to you then they wouldn’t need the attention of strangers because you’d be enough to satisfy them.
9) They’re lazy
You should avoid dating people who are lazy because they’ll expect you to take care of them. This will make you feel less like an equal because you’re the only one making an effort and you’re going to feel bitter towards them.
10) They act fake
See how they act around other people and whether or not they tend to act fake. If they tend to lie or treat people differently then you need to think about how genuine they are with you and if they’re faking attraction for you because they’re just using you.
11) They want your personal information
A controlling person will want your personal information such as banking information and passwords to social media sites. They can do anything they want with this information and ruin your life if you break up with them.
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
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