Dating tips for men: 8 Misconceptions about what is attractive to women
If you want to be successful with dating a woman with beauty and brains then you need to get rid of any misconceptions you have about what is attractive to women. They don’t want successful, handsome men to sweep them off their feet, they want a man they can make a connection with.
1) Handsome men
Men think that good looks mean you must be lacking elsewhere and that you’re not the type of person they can have meaningful conversations with. You don’t need to be handsome because they’re going to see what your personality is like too. Just be yourself and show them that you’re smart, thoughtful and the kind of man they want to be with.
2) Prestigious job title
Most women don’t care about prestigious job titles because being a hard worker who’s responsible is what they want in a man. Be proud of your job and act enthusiastic about it because she wants a man with ambition, not a man who’s lazy and does the bare minimum to get by.
3) Protection
Women are becoming more independent and don’t need a man to look after them so treat them as an equal while also acting like a gentleman. Don’t act like you have to be the big strong man who’s there to protect her because she’ll tell you if she needs your help with something.
4) Handyman skills
Being able to fix things is something that’s seen as manly and men feel like they should know how to repair things around the house instead of paying a professional to do it. It’s okay to admit that you don’t know how to do something because women see it as a good trait to be honest.
5) Overconfidence
Confidence is sexy if it’s done in the right way but overconfidence comes across as arrogant which is a turn off for most women. Show your confidence through the way you speak and move instead of bragging about what makes you so great. She’ll learn everything about you as time goes on so you don’t need to tell her everything.
6) Money
It’s nice when a man has a good income but responsibility is more important to women. Spending money on anything you want doesn’t make you seem successful because women know that men who budget and are careful with money are the ones who have their priorities in the right order.
7) Marriage and children
Some women want to get married and have kids while others don’t and if you seem too open about those things for your future then she might be turned off. She might want different things than you or she might feel like your rushing things. Let things happen naturally and only discuss those things when the relationship gets serious.
8) Impressive dates
Dates out at expensive restaurants shouldn’t be done on a regular basis and instead should be done for special occasions. She knows you want to make a good impression and will be happy with whatever you can afford because it’s how you act and treat her that she really cares about.
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
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