Tips to get a woman to have sex with you by arousing her very subtly
When you want to have sex with a woman you need to be subtle in your approach to arousing her because it can be off-putting for her if you seem too desperate or aggressive. It’s better to take your time and not be too upfront about what you want so she has time to get interested in being with you. You have to use the right techniques if you want to be successful when you seduce her because they will work nearly every time.
1) Make eye contact and smile
Eye contact is a subtle way to make a woman want to have sex with you because it can give her an intense feeling. When you’re talking to her you need to give her your undivided attention so she knows you care about what she has to say. This makes her feel special, which can help her feel a stronger attraction to you. It’s important that you smile when you’re making eye contact with her because it gives the intensity a more friendly tone and she’s going to be more open to what you have to say to her.
2) Compliment her
Compliments make people feel good so you can try complimenting her as a way of getting to the point where the two of you have sex. Telling her she looks nice or she’s always fun to talk with will put her in a good mood and she’s going to want to spend more time with you because she likes the way you make her feel. You can continue to seduce her by talking about what you complimented her on or by flirting with her.
3) Have a meaningful conversation
A meaningful conversation takes time and may not make her want to have sex right away but it can start putting things into motion. You need to choose a topic you know she’s passionate about because this conversation should be focused on her and is a way of you getting to know her better. Women usually need to feel a bond with a man before they’re comfortable enough to have sex with them and a meaningful conversation gives her the opportunity to share her thoughts and feelings with you.
4) Be a flirt
Being a flirt will get you out of the friend zone because it makes it clear that you want more than that and you’re ready to take things to the next level if she feels the same way. You have to flirt in a subtle way so it gets your message across without being inappropriate. You can say that you wish you had a girlfriend like her or that she’s the only one you want to spend time with then follow up by saying maybe you’ll take her out to dinner one night.
5) Use small, gentle touches
Small, gentle touches can subtly tell her that you want to have sex because they slowly heighten her arousal and you can become bolder when she responds well to what you’re doing. When you’re near her you can touch her arm when speaking or lightly brush hair out of her eyes as the back of your hand strokes her cheek. This creates a sexual tension and as she becomes more aroused you can put your arm around her to hold her close or give her a small kiss on the lips.
6) Show vulnerability
Vulnerability may not seem like a manly way to act when you’re trying to get a woman to have sex with you but this type of behaviour is appealing to some women. They love it when a man is willing to be gentle because it shows he has a kind heart and doesn’t care about being macho like all the other men are. You can show vulnerability by being nice to or talking fondly of children or animals, doing something nice for someone or sharing something personal with her. This makes you stand out and she’s easier to seduce because it makes her fantasize about you being a thoughtful lover who wants to make love to her.
7) Make yourself more appealing
You can wear nicer clothes, get a haircut, use a new aftershave or change your behaviour by acting more confident. She’s going to notice the change in you and this makes her see you in a new way, which grabs her attention. Once she notices you, you can start talking to her and get her imagination going wild by being interesting or fun. Tell her that you want a change in life or to do something exciting and when she asks what you had in mind you can flirt by saying you were thinking of spending the night with her.
8) Offer to give her a massage
A massage is a good way to help a woman relax and get her in the mood to have sex so offer to give her a back rub or a full body massage. Don’t make it sexual at first because you don’t want to pressure her or make her nervous about what’s going to happen. Instead, you need to let it just be a massage for awhile then ask her if she wants more. She’s going to appreciate you asking for permission and if she wants you out of the friend zone then this gives her an opportunity to do that without making the first move.
9) Spend quality time with her
Usually women need to feel close to someone before they have sex with them so if you’re patient you can subtly arouse her until she’s ready for more. Spend quality time with her over a couple of weeks so she has a chance to get to know you better and let her think about what it would be like to have sex with you. Every time she sees you the bond she feels will grow stronger until she’s dying for more and drops hints about it. This is when you make your move because her anticipation is high and it’ll be quick and easy for you to seduce her.
10) Help her relax
A subtle way you can get a woman in the mood to have sex is by helping her relax because she doesn’t want anything sexual when she’s tired or stressed out. Being there for her shows support and that is behaviour that can help arouse her. Tell her you know she’s stressed out and you want to make her feel better. Cook her dinner, light some candles then snuggle up on the couch to watch her favourite movie. Afterwards, you can take things into the bedroom, give her a massage then make love to her.
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