10 Tips to be attractive to a woman if you are ugly
When you’re not attractive and you know it there can be some affects to your dating life. You have low self-esteem and find it difficult to approach women so you end up being single and wishing you could be more appealing to them. It doesn’t have to be this way if you’re willing to make a couple of small changes, like willing to be patient and embracing being a nerd. These small changes will improve the impression you make and women will be attracted to you regardless of how you look.
1) Have confidence
One of the most attractive qualities a man can have is confidence because it shows strength without being too aggressive. Women love this quality in a man and she notices this more than your appearance because it shows in the way you interact with her. When you’re talking to her you need to remember to make eye contact, think before you speak so you avoid awkward silences or stammering, stand up straight and talk about things in a positive tone of voice so it shows your in control of the situation.
2) Be passionate about hobbies
When your passionate about hobbies it makes you more attractive because it shows you care about something. It doesn’t matter what your hobby is, the important thing is that you’re knowledgeable about it and can get excited about it. The emotion you’re expressing is what she likes because she knows you’re not boring and makes her wonder what else you can be passionate about. It also gives you something to talk about which can lead to an interesting conversation as she shares her hobbies with you.
3) Embrace being a nerd
A lot of guys hide the fact they’re a nerd because they’re worried about being judged and act like someone they’re not. Women can sense when you’re not being honest with them and this makes her lose interest in you. Being a liar isn’t attractive so you need to embrace who you are and don’t worry about what others think. Women appreciate this behaviour because it shows honesty and confidence which makes you stand out from other guys.
4) Smile and laugh a lot
Having a positive attitude is attractive to women because it makes you seem like a nice guy that’s fun to spend time with. You can show her you’re an upbeat kind of guy by smiling and laughing a lot. Keep the mood light when you’re talking to her and make sure you only laugh when it’s appropriate because it doesn’t look good when you laugh at something rude or embarrassing. This makes you seem like an easy going guy that she can have fun with which is the kind of guy she wants to be dating.
5) Have a sense of humour
Women love a man with a good sense of humour and you can use this to get her attention so she doesn’t have a chance to notice that you’re ugly. Try to make her laugh without being rude or offensive by avoiding sensitive subjects. You can make jokes about what’s happening in the moment, like how nervous you are or about something you can see. You can also make a generic joke or make a witty comment as a response to something she says.
6) Be kind and thoughtful
Kindness and thoughtfulness are a way to be attractive without relying on your physical appearance. Women fantasize about bad boys but they really want to date guys who are boyfriend material and who act decently. You need to live up to their expectations if you want to be successful at dating. They want Prince Charming and they are willing to overlook how ugly you are if you can sweep her off her feet. She wants you to send her texts wishing her a good day or goodnight, she wants you to surprise her with flowers and remember the little things that are important to her.
7) Try to be more attractive
There are things you can do to improve the way you look so take some time to pamper yourself. Get a haircut, buy some new clothes, trim your fingernails, sculpt your eyebrows and use whitening strips for your teeth. These changes will make you more attractive and presentable which helps make a good impression on women. They know you’re making an effort even though you’re not that good looking and see you as being ambitious and proactive.
8) Be patient
One of the worst things a guy can do when they’re trying to hookup with women is trying to rush things. It makes you seem desperate and when you’re not attractive it also makes you seem lonely and creepy. Even though it’s exciting when you think you have a chance with a woman you need to control yourself and be patient. Take your time and let her get to know you better before asking her out so that she knows you’re a great guy and that’s more important than how you look. You can start out as friends and slowly take things further by flirting with her so she knows you have romantic feelings for her.
9) Be a good conversationalist
Being a good conversationalist can help you be more attractive because you can show off your personality. Be knowledgeable about a couple of different topics and avoid any that can be problematic like politics. You need to hold up your end of the conversation and be ready to change the subject if you sense she’s losing interest. Act interested in the conversation and give her a chance to speak. This lets you get to know each other better and show her that you can have a great time together and that you take an interest in the world around you.
10) Don’t put yourself down
When you’re not attractive and know it you may deal with it by trying to make it be not such a big deal. You poke fun at yourself before others can and show everyone that you don’t care what they think. This tactic doesn’t work when you’re trying to meet women because they know you have low self-esteem and if you don’t love yourself then they think you’re not able to love them either. Don’t put yourself down and always talk about yourself in a positive way. Not only does this show you have confidence in yourself but over time you can start to believe it which improves your mental health.
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
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