11 Non-sexual things that make men attractive to women
Men tend to notice a woman’s sexual appeal first and her personality second but women are different; they find non-sexual things like self confidence, gentle masculinity and respect to be more of an attraction than physical attractiveness. By knowing the non-sexual things that appeal to women you can improve yourself and have more success in the dating world.
1) Pride in their appearance
There’s a difference between taking pride in your appearance and acting like you’re the sexiest guy in the room and women will notice which one is part of your personality. You need to make sure you take pride in how you look without taking it too far because women want a nice looking guy who’s humble. Doing things like wearing clean clothes that fit properly, wearing clothes appropriate for the occasion, shaving and getting regular haircuts will make you look presentable and show that you care enough about yourself to make an effort which appeals to women.
2) A sense of humour
Laughing, smiling and joking show women that you’re laidback and can see the funny side of things instead of being wound up and serious all the time. They love it when a man has a good balance of emotions and he’s someone they can have a good time with.
3) Taking things slowly
A lot of men come on too strong because they want to hook up or because they’ve found someone they’re attracted to and don’t want her to get away but this pushes women away. Women find it sexy when men take things slowly because it shows that they’re thoughtful and care about how she feels. If you want her to be crazy about you then you need to show her that you’re interested in her then take things at her pace because she’ll appreciate this approach and will want to be with you.
4) Self confidence
Women love a man who has self confidence because it makes them seem strong and is a sign of masculinity. You have to be careful not to come across as arrogant because that’s a turn off. Women want a man who is capable of taking charge but also thoughtful enough to ask for her opinion and take it seriously. Having self confidence is part of being a mature adult and women want to date a man who can make decisions for himself, can figure things out and get things done without constantly acting like he’s unsure or is going to fail.
5) Passion for hobbies
Being passionate about hobbies shows women that you have interests outside of work and that you care about something important to you. It makes you seem interesting and women will want to spend time getting to know you. It doesn’t matter what your hobby is, it’s the passion that draws women in and they’ll want to see some of that passion in the bedroom. Think about what you enjoy doing in your spare time and make a part of your life because not only will this make your life more satisfying but it will be something that makes you more interesting.
6) Listening skills
Men are known for having poor listening skills and women often feel like they’re being heard in a basic sense but not listened to. You need to work on your listening skills so she knows that you’re actually listening to and understanding what she’s saying to you. By making eye contact, not getting distracted and paying attention to what she says, you’re showing her that you care about her. Women like this quality because they want to date men who take her feelings and thoughts seriously.
7) Affection towards children and animals
Women tend to be maternal even if they aren’t ready to or don’t want to have children and they find it sexy when a man is affection towards children and animals. It shows a soft, gentle side and a vulnerability that most men are too embarrassed to express because they think it lessens their masculinity. Women love listening or watching you play with nieces or nephews so be open about the children in your life because this makes them think highly of you.
8) Respect and thoughtfulness
Some men think that masculinity involves acting tough and being a big shot but no one really likes that kind of man. There is nothing sexier than a man who understands that respect and thoughtfulness are two of the best traits a person can have. Women want to be with a man who has morals and can behave like a kind, decent human being so pay attention to how you treat others. Simple things like saying hello to someone, listening, holding open doors and being polite are all things that make you a better person.
9) Understanding the needs of others
Understanding that your needs aren’t the only ones that matter and you need to be considerate of other people is a trait that goes along with respect and thoughtfulness. Women want a man who thinks of others and who make an effort at being loving and supportive. She wants you to ask how her day was and mean it, she wants you to help out with chores if she’s not feeling well or is busy and she wants you to remember the little things that are important to you.
10) Not forcing gender stereotypes
Gender stereotypes are something that women won’t put up with anymore and they only want to date men who treat them as equals. If you go into a relationship being open-minded then it’s more likely to last because she’s going to feel loved and respected. She’s going to feel more attraction for you if you don’t expect her to be like your mother and look after you and the housework or treat her like she’s not capable of looking after herself. She’s going to be happy and will love spending time with you if you treat her as an equal because she won’t feel pressure to be a certain way.
11) Being genuine
Being genuine is something that most people notice and they can tell when you’re just being nice because you want something from them. Women are attracted to men who like them for who they are and don’t act like they only want a hook up. She’ll see right through your act so only go after women you genuinely like and take your time getting to know them. This is how women want to be approached and she’s going to be glad you’re not like all the other guys.
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
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