12 Dating secrets women will never openly acknowledge
When it comes to dating women like to appear calm, confident and well put together but that’s just for appearances sake. There are secrets they’ll never tell you, like keeping their options open by using dating apps or worrying about how the date is going to go. It’s good to know what secrets women are keeping when they’re in the dating scene so that you can understand them better.
1) They’ll be talking to others on dating apps
At the beginning of a relationship you don’t know if things will work out or not and some women will deal with this by keeping their options open. They won’t tell you they’re talking to other guys on dating apps like adultfriendfinder because they don’t want to seem promiscuous and want you to think you’re the one they’re interested in. They’ll string along potential dating partners until they know that they’re going to be with you for awhile.
2) They look for you on social media
Once women know your real name or email address they’ll try to find you on social media so they can get to know as much about you as they can. They’ll read all of your public posts and look at the photos you’re uploaded but won’t add you as a friend because they don’t want you to know they’re researching you to see if you’re the kind of guy they want to be dating. Getting a better idea of who you are helps them feel more confident and they’ll be less nervous on dates so they’ll make a better impression on you.
3) They’re more experienced with dating apps than you think
Women don’t want you to see them this way so they lie about how much they use dating apps and make you think they rarely use them and you’re one of only a few guys they’ve met this way.
4) They compare themselves to their new partner’s ex
It’s natural for women to compare themselves to other women and this is something they’ll always do with their new partner’s ex. They want to see if they’re as attractive, smart or alluring as your ex and will discreetly check them out on social media or remember what you say about them. They feel like they have to live up to your ex so they can be everything you want without the bad parts of your last relationship.
5) Their girlfriends will influence their dating decisions
Women always have a couple of close girlfriends that they share their secrets with and rely on for advice so they’ll look them for help with dating decisions. When they first start dating you they’ll tell their girlfriends all about it and see what they think about you. If they react negatively she’ll second guess her attraction to you and will consider slowing things down or breaking up with you.
6) It takes awhile for them to trust you
One of the bad sides of using dating apps is getting messages from creepy guys and hearing stories about how dangerous they are which makes women wary of the men they meet on there. It will take awhile for them to trust you, even if you’ve been messaging a lot because they know that appearances can be deceiving. They’ll be friendly towards you but will make sure their friends know where they are, who they’re with and when they should be back after the date.
7) They have a variety of excuses to get out of bad dates
Women have a mental list of excuses they use to get out of bad dates and will take time to come up with ones that sound realistic so they don’t hurt your feelings by being obvious about lying to you. For the first few dates they’ll have these in the back of their mind while they’re with you and are waiting to use them if necessary.
8) They hate surprise dates
Women like to be prepared for dates because they want to be dressed appropriately and check out the location of where they’re going. If you take them on a surprise date they’re going to be stressed out and wonder if dating you will always be like this. They don’t want to be in a relationship where they feel on edge and will only appreciate surprise dates on rare occasions.
9) They research where you’re taking them
Once women know where you’re taking them on a date they’ll spend time researching it and if they don’t like it then they’ll gently try to change your mind. They’ll find out what part of town they’re going to, if it’s a restaurant they’ll read the menu and pick out their meal beforehand and see what the dress code is and see if any of their girlfriends have been there before.
10) They spend ages trying to look perfect for you
Women have a reputation for taking ages to get ready and this is especially true when it comes to the first few months of dating. They want to look perfect for you so they’ll start to get ready for their date well in advance by trying on different outfits, experimenting with different hairstyles and making sure their makeup is done right.
11) They fake being late
It’s nerve wracking going on a date with someone you don’t know well and this nervousness makes women show up to the date early. They don’t want to look too eager so they’ll park close by and wait until a few minutes after the agreed meeting time and fake showing up late so they can appear relaxed and confident. They’ll make an excuse about traffic so you’ll believe them and making small talk about how bad traffic can be will help break the ice.
12) They compare you to their ex
When you’re dating someone it’s normal to compare your new partner to your ex and see what the differences and similarities are. As soon as she meets you she’ll be taking mental notes of what you’re like; your interests, hobbies, goals and ambitiousness to see if you’ll be more compatible with them than their ex were.
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
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