7/10 Men have one of the 9 common sexual fetishes
Everyone has at least one sexual fetish because having desires and fantasies is part of a healthy sex life. Some fetishes are obscure and it can be difficult to find someone who’s also interested in it but some fetishes like bondage and anal sex are common and appeal to most men.
1) Bondage
Bondage is a popular fetish because it’s about giving control to somebody else and uses the power play of submission and domination while using sex toys like handcuffs, rope or bondage tape. Some men like to be the ones who are tied up and teased or tortured by a sexy woman because they like the idea of being helpless. Other men crave control and want to tie their partner up so they can do what they want as long as they follow previously discussed boundaries. One of the main reasons why giving or taking control is a turn on is because it shows trust and it pushes boundaries which is exciting.
2) Age play
Age play doesn’t always mean underage roleplaying, it can be various ages. Some men fantasize about naughty cheerleaders, babysitters or college students while others want a sexy, confident mature woman. Men like age play because it lets them act out a scenario with their partner who’s the same age instead of trying to find someone who is age appropriate, plus this sometimes keeps things legal depending on the age you’re playing. Some men can also play younger than what they are if they have a Mommy fetish. They enjoy this because it feels safe to give up the responsibilities of being an adult and letting someone else take care of you.
3) Voyeurism
It can be a turn on for men to watch their partner masturbate or have sex with someone else while they’re not aware of being watched. You’re spying on someone and seeing them act in ways they might not act around you so it feels secretive, exciting and wrong. These feelings are a big part of why it’s appealing because it gives a sexual rush and fuels fantasies without you actually being involved. It can also give a feeling of power because you know something about them and they might be embarrassed or afraid that you know intimate details about them and because you got away with doing something that you know you shouldn’t be doing.
4) Threesome
Threesomes are a common fetish for men because it’s twice the fun. Men find women sexually attractive and when there’s more than one there’s more sex positions he can do. He can lie back and let both of them do what they want to him, maybe have one giving him oral while the other is riding his face or he could have sex with one while touching the other one or he can masturbate while they make out with each other. There are lots of different things you can do and sex will last longer because your attention will be on two people which means you’re going to take your time with each of them.
5) Foot fetish
Foot fetish can involve the way the foot looks, feels or smells. Some men like to look at feet because they find it sexually arousing, some men like how soft but firm they feel when they touch it but others prefer to have feet rubbing or pressing down on them and some men like feet that smell clean while others enjoy sweaty feet. Foot fetish can also involve socks, pantyhose or heels because it can add an element of sexiness to it. It’s possible to enjoy more than one aspect of foot fetishism because they use different senses like touch, sight and smell and you can make it a more intense experience by indulging in multiple ones.
6) Pantyhose
Pantyhose is seen as a sexy and feminine piece of lingerie and makes a woman seem more attractive. Men want women who are feminine and the pantyhose enhances that ideal because of the way they showcase legs. You’ll look at her sexy legs and run your eyes up, wondering and wanting what’s underneath her skirt. They’re also sexy because they’re a soft, slippery material that feels nice when touched. Some men want to feel it rub against the skin because of the sensation it gives them and feet that are covered in pantyhose can give a new feeling during a footjob. You can also use pantyhose on your hand while giving yourself a handjob if you like the sensation of pantyhose but don’t have a partner who’s interested which makes it a fetish that can be done as a solo activity which increases it’s appeal.
7) Anal sex
Anal sex is forbidden which makes it seem more desirable. Some men want to have anal sex with their partner because not a lot of women enjoy anal sex and it’s something that seems unattainable. It also feels good for men because it’s a new position and it’s a small orifice which adds pressure and enhances the pleasurable feelings. Other men want to receive anal sex and fantasize about women using a strap-on to have sex with them. They might enjoy this because they feel humiliation of being taken by a woman but a lot of the appeal is the sensation of having their prostate touched to the point of having an orgasm.
8) Watersports
Watersports can involve giving or receiving golden showers but it can also be related to omorashi which is the enjoyment of a full bladder. It can feel nice to receive a golden shower because of the actual sensation of warmth and wetness or because of the knowledge that it’s “dirty” and wrong. Some men like giving golden showers because it gives a feeling of power over their partner or it could be a way of claiming them because you’re the only one they’d do this with. Drinking urine is popular too because good girls don’t do things like pee in men’s mouths and this makes it taboo and exciting. Plus some enjoy the taste of it.
9) Roleplaying
Roleplaying is one of the most common fetishes that men have because there are literally a million different scenarios that can be acted out, including teacher/student, nurse/patient, boss/secretary, businessman/escort or weak nerd/strong Mistress. You can bring to life nearly any fantasy and when one gets boring you can try another one. You can use accessories like outfits or toys to make it more realistic or do the roleplay in a new location, like pretending to be strangers at a bar or doing the roleplay outside.
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