7 Anal sex tips for beginners
Anal sex is the kind of wild sex that needs to be done carefully if you want it to feel good. You can’t just start things by going straight to it, you need to ease them into it by using fingering and taking a slow approach. Otherwise there’s a chance the night will end with no one feeling satisfied.
1) Prepare the area
A few days before trying anal sex it’s a good idea to avoid spicy foods or anything that might upset your stomach. This will stop anything embarrassing from happening. You should also shower beforehand so that you’re physically clean as well. If you’re nervous then you could use an anal douche to make sure you’re clean as well.
2) Use lube
Assholes are tighter than vaginas and they don’t naturally get wet so lube needs to be used. More is better because it will make penetration easier and decrease your chances of tearing the skin around your asshole. Cover the penis and your asshole with a generous amount of lube and use a water-based one so the condom doesn’t break.
3) Start with fingering
You need to work up to having something as big as a penis inside you so start with something small so you can get used to the feeling and slowly stretch your asshole. Fingering is the best way to do this because you can control the speed and depth of penetration. You can also add a second finger as the asshole begins to loosen up so they can see what it feels like to have more in them.
4) Enter slowly
Enter slowly with a smooth pushing sensation while holding their hip to keep them steady. Your partner needs time to relax and get used to the sensation of being penetrated and by going slowly they’ll have a chance to tell you if they need you to stop. Their muscles will be tensing up but rubbing the small of their back can help relax them.
5) Stop for a minute after penetration
Being penetrated for the first time anally can be uncomfortable or painful so once you’re inside stop for a minute. This will give them time to get used to it and let them tell you when they’re ready to continue so they don’t feel like you’re rushing them. When you are ready to start moving do it with small thrusts and gradually build up to something faster.
6) Don’t go all the way in
The areas that have the most nerve endings are the tip of the penis and the rim of the asshole. You’ll get the most sensation by stimulating those areas only and that means you don’t need to penetrate her completely. If you try to penetrate her fully all at once it will be painful and make her feel too full. With partial penetration you’ll be stimulating yours and hers most sensitive areas and will make it feel good.
7) Stimulate the clit
Very few women can orgasm from anal sex because they need clit stimulation. During anal sex she can orgasm by fingering herself or by using a vibrator. You could rub her clit too by reaching around and this will make you penetrate her even deeper. The double stimulation of her anal and clit can make sex feel better and help her orgasm faster which can help you because her muscles will be squeezing around your penis.
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