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The 7 qualities that a great boyfriend has

How to be a good boyfriendEveryone has different personality traits but there are some that every great boyfriend should have if he wants to be successful at dating.

1) Reliable

A woman wants a couple that’s reliable because this instills trust and safety in the relationship. Show up for dates on time and if you promise you’ll do something then make sure you don’t forget about it. If she sends you a message then reply back as soon as you see it instead of ignoring it and be there for her emotionally as well as physically when she needs you to be.

2) Interested in her life

A relationship is a connection between two people and there can’t be a feeling of someone being more important than their partner. Take an interest in your girlfriend’s life by talking to her about her job, get to know her family and friends and find out what her plans are for the future. Find out what her hobbies are and find a couple that you can do with her so she can see that you’re someone she can spend time with.

3) Respectful

When you’re out on a date remember to hold doors open for her and never check out other women because your focus should be on her. Avoid using pet names unless it’s an established relationship and you know that it won’t annoy her. Treat her with respect and show her that you know how to act like a gentleman because this will make her want to make the relationship work.

4) Willing to compromise

A successful relationship involves give and take so be willing to compromise. Don’t act like it’s all about you and demand that every date night is spent doing something only you enjoy. Think about what would make her happy and do that instead. If the two of you are having a disagreement then back down if it’s more important to her than it is to you. This will cut down on fights and help the two of you get along better.

5) Able to listen

You need to be able to listen and understand what your girlfriend is telling you because this is how you show her that you’re interested in her. Make eye contact, don’t interrupt her and ask her about how she feels to make it a meaningful conversation. This also might help you spot a problem in your relationship because she might be unhappy but won’t know how to tell you. By listening to her you’ll be able to notice a change in her tone of voice and you can ask her if everything’s okay.

6) Cares about his appearance

Women don’t want to be seen in public with a guy who looks like a slob because it’s embarrassing and they feel like people are wondering why you’re the best she can do. Wear clean clothes that fit properly and get regular haircuts. You need to make her feel good about going out with you so take care of your appearance and be the man she deserves.

7) Romantic

Women love romance and it’s going to make her feel special and loved if you make an effort now and again. Surprise her one night by cooking dinner and light some candles or end the date by giving her a massage. Think about what would make her happy and create a special memory for her so that she knows just how much you love her.

Author at Monkeys Reviews Australia
Emily is based in Sydney.
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
Emily Scott

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