The 8 best bondage sex toys for all you kinky people out there
Sex toys are a fun and easy way to enhance your sex life and since there’s such a variety to choose from you’ll be able to find one that meets your needs. When you’re kinky you’re going to need standard toys like handcuffs and blindfolds but there are more unique items, like Wartenberg Pinwheels, that will interest you as well. You and your partner are going to have lots of fun deciding which toys to be and using them during a hot sex session.
1) Handcuffs
Handcuffs are one of the most basic sex toys because they’re easy to use and they quickly add a sexy tone to the moment while also giving you lots of ways to add other elements, like using a blindfold or gag. You can get metal ones that feel cold against your skin which can enhance the sensual feeling or you can buy padded ones that are more comfortable. Handcuffs are adjustable so you can out them on loosely or if you want to increase the pain level you can put them on tightly so they bite in the skin. These are going to keep you restrained and the only one who decides when to let you go is your partner which builds trust between the two of you.
2) Spanking Paddle
The best sex toys are ones that are versatile and give you full control over how to use it which is why spanking paddles are something you need to consider buying. These are great for people who are new to bondage but also ones who are experienced because you can decide how much force to use. You can spank your partner lightly to get them in the mood or you can start out gently and gradually build up to a rougher hit if they can take the pain. Spanking paddles come in different sizes and you can get ones that are made to inflict maximum pain because they have holes drilled into the paddle.
3) Wartenberg Pinwheel
Some sex toys are made for people who have some experience with pain and who have a good idea of what they’re doing and the Wartenberg Pinwheel is one of them. This is a metal handle with a series of spikes in a pinwheel at one end of it and you run it over your partner’s body. You need to be careful and do it lightly otherwise it can break the skin or cause too much pain too quickly. You can gently roll it over their most sensitive areas, like their breasts, to heighten their senses and arousal and increase the pressure once you know what they can tolerate. It’s a small toy which makes it easy to use on someone who’s in bondage because it can get to most places without requiring too much movement from them.
4) Nipple clamps
Nipple clamps are one of the few sex toys that can be used in private or in public because they’re small and don’t require physical movements to work. When you’re using them in private you can put them on your partner and adjust how tight they are during play or you can get nipple clamps that are connected by a chain which you can tug on to add pressure. If you’re brave enough to be kinky in public then you can put on nipple clamps under your shirt and wear them without anyone knowing about it. You can also use them when you’re alone and in the mood for some fun or wear them while waiting for your partner to come home.
5) Body Harness
A body harness can be strictly for fashion or be used with other sex toys depending on what activities you want to do. It consists of leather straps that you can wear around your torso or use it to restrain your arms to your sides or behind your back during bondage play. You can use the rings on them to attach additional restraints to it and play around with different bondage combinations, such as attaching your wrist to your thigh. Your partner can also use the body harness to grab you and pull you closer to them or help put you in a better position.
6) Chastity Devices
Chastity devices are sex toys that are made in different models specifically for males or females so you need to buy multiples if you and your partner both want to experiment with chastity. For women it’s a short term item because it’s uncomfortable and needs to be taken off in order to go to the bathroom but for men it’s one they can wear long term. They are good for kinky people because your sexual release depends on your partner giving you permission and they can spend hours, days or even weeks denying you as they tease you and build up the anticipation. Chastity devices are good sex toys to use in public as well and can be used even when you’re not in a sexual situation as a way to prove your commitment to your partner or as a way to learn to control your sexual urges.
7) Gags
Sex toys like ball gags can be used in many different activities and they come in a variety of shapes. If you’re into more traditional play you can get a standard ball gag which is just ball and a strap that goes around your head to keep it in place but if you want to get really kinky you can get one that’s penis shaped or one that has an external dildo that you can use on your partner. Gags are a great way to show submission and if you’re doing pain based bondage activities then it helps a lot to have something to bite down on.
8) Strap-on
A strap-on is one of those sex toys that’s usually linked to women who are pegging their partner but men can use them too. Women can use them to assert their dominance by pegging their partner and show them who’s the boss in the bedroom. Men who are in chastity can use them to perform sex acts on their partner as a way of showing that she’s worthy of sexual release but he isn’t and is only there to satisfy her. A strap-on can also be used in a kinky but sensual way if she uses it gently to give her partner a prostate orgasm but if it’s a bondage situation they can be used during rough anal sex.
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