8 Tips on how to flirt with women at the beach
The beach is a great place to meet women, have fun and hopefully hook up but only if you do it in the right way. You don’t want to be the guy who goes there and makes it obvious what he’s doing so keep it low key by being a discreet flirt, having good pick up lines and paying attention to her body language so you know when you’re starting to cross lines. By making the right first impression a trip to the beach can be more than what you were expecting.
1) Offer her some shade
It’s going to be hot and sunny at the beach so be a friendly guy and offer her a spot under your beach umbrella. It’s going to give you an opportunity to sit close together and talk so you can get to know each other and see if there’s a connection. To make it clear you’re being a flirt you can joke that she’s the only one you want to share your umbrella with and watch her body language because if she’s attracted to you she’s going to blush and move closer to you.
2) Invite her to play beach games
There are lots of beach games you can play so be a flirt by singling her out and asking her to play with you. If you’re a confident type of person it can be a game for just the two of you like Frisbee, if you’re outgoing and fun you can ask if she wants to make a sand castle and if you’re shy you can ask her to join in a game of beach volleyball if you’re there with friends. This shows her that you’re thoughtful and she’s going to feel special if you only ask her to hang out with you.
3) Bring your dog
It can be awkward to flirt with a stranger so if you have a dog you can use it as an icebreaker instead of relying on cheesy pick up lines. Have fun with your dog and wait for her to notice the two of you because there’s a good chance she’ll want to come over and pet the dog while getting to know his owner. Once she comes over you can start talking about your dog and ask her if she has any pets. this will get the conversation going and you can ease into flirt mode by suggesting the two of you walk your dogs together if she has one as well and if she doesn’t you could offer to meet her at the beach next weekend so the three of you can hang out.
4) Share a drink and snacks
Since it’s so hot at the beach and you’re going to be there awhile it’s a good idea to bring a cooler full of cold drinks and some snacks to keep you satisfied. When you see an attractive woman you want to get to know you can flirt with her by casually having a drink, make eye contact with her, smile then pick up a new drink and offer it to her. After having a drink and some snacks you can use pick up lines about getting something more filling to eat or wanting to spend more time with her then take her out to dinner.
5) Don’t flirt too sexually
Body language can say a lot so when you want to flirt you shouldn’t say anything too sexual and let your actions get your point across. Use body language to get her attention by making sure you’re standing in an area where she’ll notice you and make eye contact to get her attention. Smile then look away quickly like you’re embarrassed at being caught checking her out and wait a minute before doing it again. When she notices you doing this pay attention to her body language and if she doesn’t seem annoyed or bothered by it you know she likes what you’re doing and you should make your move by going over to her and using some pick up lines to get things moving faster.
6) Go for a walk
It’s easier to flirt when there aren’t a lot of people around because you’re going to feel safer and more confident when you have privacy so after you’ve broken the ice and know that she likes you, you can either suggest going for a walk or casually start walking slowly as you talk to her so she follows you. Pay attention to her body language and to what she says so you can wait for the right moment to use your pick up lines. Knowing that she’s the only one who will hear them will make it easier for you to say and she’s going to be more willing to flirt back if she knows it’s a secret moment between the two of you.
7) Check out nearby attractions
A lot of beaches have nearby attractions, like a boardwalk with little shops or cafes, so take advantage of them by being a flirt and turning your first meeting into a mini date. Hang out at the beach for a little while to get to know each other then tell them that you’d like to spend the rest of the day with them and have fun exploring the area. Since these attractions are easy to get to they’ll be comfortable going there with you and you can check out some stores, grab a bite to eat then end your mini date by walking along the beach as the sun sets.
8) Set up another beach date
You don’t want to meet a great woman at the beach then miss out on dating her by forgetting to exchange contact information so when you’re being a flirt with her you should casually mention having fun with her and wanting to do it again. This is going to make her think about spending more time with you and when the conversation starts to slow down you can make your move by telling her when you’re free and asking if she’d like to join you for another beach date. If she isn’t sure when she can meet again you can give her your number and ask her to text you later.
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