9 Erotic role play ideas that’ll totally spice up your sex life
Vanilla sex is okay but after awhile things are going to get stale in the bedroom if that’s all you do. Your relationship will suffer unless you change things up to make sex exciting again and give both of you something to look forward to. You can try new positions, sex toys, bondage and acting out a variety of role play ideas so you no longer have to settle for vanilla sex.
1) Cheerleader and Teacher
Cheerleaders are seen as the epitome of sexiness at school and that’s because they’re young, they have limited sexual experience and wear cute little uniforms while showing off how flexible they are. This is why role play ideas involving them are always sexy and you can be the horny teacher who can’t take his eyes off a special cheerleader. Uniforms for these role play ideas can be easily bought online so you can discreetly buy one then watch as your partner does her best cheer-leading routine just for you. When she’s done you can make her do an oral exam while still wearing her uniform.
2) Hitchhiker and Driver
There are many different role play ideas that you can do, from being strangers at a bar or picking up a prostitute, but pretending to pick up a hitchhiker is a bit different. You can leave the house so she has time to put on a new outfit, maybe cut off denim shorts and a tank top, then meet her at an arranged place and time. Watch her for a minute then when she notices you and waves you down you can pick her up and have car sex or take her to a motel.
3) Masseur and Businessman
It can be sexy and freeing to give yourself to your partner and let them take care of you so role play ideas like these can be a way of relieving stress while also bringing a bit of a thrill to your vanilla sex life. You can be the businessman who needs some looking after and your partner can be the masseur who knows just how to touch you. When you come home form worked stressed out and tired she can meet you at the door in lingerie, take you upstairs and give you a massage to help you relax while making sure it has a happy ending.
4) Prostitute and Cop
Some men find prostitutes sexy because they’ll do whatever you want and you might like having your partner be kinkier than she usually is. You can do role play ideas where she’s a slut who’s only there to give you what you want and will wear anything you tell her to while using bondage. You can pretend to be an undercover cop who she tries to solicit and arrest with a pair of handcuffs you’ve bought at the adult store. When she’s handcuffed and at your mercy you can tell her what you want her to do and if she behaves then you’ll let her go.
5) Maid and Homeowner
Role play ideas that involve spontaneous sex while pretending to be strangers can be an exciting change from vanilla sex. You can buy a sexy maid uniform for your partner and have her wear it around your house. Have her do her everyday chores around the house and when she’s not expecting it have sex with her. She could be washing the dishes and you take her on the counter or kitchen table or she could be cleaning the living room and you take her on the couch. The anticipation will build as she waits to feel your hands on you and you can tease her by staring at her or brushing up against her.
6) Stripper and Voyeur
Strip clubs are exciting because women are performing for you but there’s a seediness about it and you’re not allowed to touch them no matter how bad you want to. Role play ideas where you have to wait to be satisfied can show you how much your partner still turns you on and taking things at a slower pace can even make vanilla sex more fun. You can sit on the edge of the bed and watch as your partner slowly dances for you and reveals herself one piece of clothing at a time. She’s in control and you can only watch and desire her until she decides to have sex with you.
7) Dungeon Master and Slave
Bondage can inspire a lot of role play ideas because you can be a submissive,a dominant or you can be a switch while trying all sorts of kinky toys like handcuffs, whips, blindfolds, humblers or anal beads. You can be the Dungeon Master who whips his submissive into shape and teaches her how to pleasure a man or you can be a submissive who gives her total control as she uses bondage to keep you in your place. There are lots of different ways to incorporate bondage into your role play so try as many as you can because you can always use the safety word if you want to stop.
8) Sister’s Friend and Brother
It’s normal to have a crush on one of your sibling’s friends when you’re growing up so use role play ideas to relive the excitement of discovering your sexuality. Your partner can pretend to be having a sleepover at your place because she’s friends with your sister and you’re the brother who catches her looking at you all of the time. Let her snuggle up in bed then sneak into her room, sliding under the covers while she’s asleep and gently wake her up with your touches. Take things slow and act nervous because this is supposed to be a naughty secret and both of you are supposed to be new to having sex.
9) Uncle and Niece
Role play ideas where you’re the older and more experienced man who can guide a young virgin into her sexuality can be a good change from vanilla sex where you and your partner have a routine. You can be the uncle who notices she’s growing up and you tell her that you want to be the one who teaches her about her body and sex because you love her. She’ll act shy and naive while you show her what to do and listen to the noises you make as you stroke her pussy and give her first real orgasm.
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