9 Ways to be mysterious to a woman without playing mind games
Being mysterious can get you noticed by a woman and make her eager to go out with you because she wants to get her curiosity satisfied. She’s going to increase how much she flirts and will do whatever she can to get to know you better. This only works if you do it in the right way, you’re going to quickly lose your chance with her if she thinks you’re playing games. You have to find the right balance and be careful about how quickly you make a move on her and how much you reveal about yourself. When you do this, you’re going to create the right mood and get her imagination wild as she fantasizes about what it would be like to date you.
1) Make her ask you out
Women are used to being asked out so when you don’t do this it’s going to get her attention and make her wonder why you’re not doing what’s expected. Make it clear you feel an attraction by flirting but don’t ask her out. Wait awhile for the anticipation to build then casually mention you think it’s sexy when a woman takes charge and goes after what she wants. This puts the idea in her head and she’s going to be the one to ask you out on a date.
2) Listen to her plans
If you want to be really mysterious, you can show up at a social place where you know she’ll be and pretend to bump into her. Don’t do this too often because it’ll be creepy but once or twice is fine. You can find out where she’ll be by listening to her plans, when she mentions going to a club or restaurant make a mental note of it and go there as well. When you pretend to accidentally run into her and she asks what you’re doing there, you can give a mysterious smile while saying you had a hunch she’d be there.
3) Don’t dominate conversations
Dominating conversations can stop you from being mysterious because you end up revealing too much about yourself. You need to let her do most of the talking, this lets you get to know her better while not giving away information about who you are. You can make the conversation revolve around her by asking her questions and listening to what she says. If she tries to ask you anything you can answer but then say you’re enjoying getting to know her and that you’re starting to feel an attraction towards her because this makes her want to keep sharing with you.
4) Don’t instantly reply to messages
You can’t be mysterious when you instantly reply to messages because it’s clear you’re waiting for her to get in touch. You want to keep her interested but replying too quickly makes you seem desperate. When you get a message from her, you should wait to read it and if you’re tempted to look at it right away, you can distract yourself by going for a walk. After a couple of hours have passed, you can read her message and send a reply. This makes her wonder what you’re doing and makes her look forward to hearing from you.
5) Be vague when answering questions
You need to be vague when answering any questions but don’t do it in a way that makes her think you’re playing games with her because she will quickly get fed up of this. Don’t speak in a dismissive tone of voice; you want to sound playful so she knows there’s attraction between the two of you and this if part of flirting. When she asks what you do for a living you can say, “A little bit of this and that, why don’t you try and guess?”, then give her an honest answer when she asks for it.
6) Be confident and to the point
Being confident and straight to the point when talking to her can make you seem mysterious because this is sexy behaviour and makes her curious about why you’re so confident. She wants to know why your self-esteem is so high and what is giving you this strong, positive attitude. You can keep this appeal going by not downplaying your achievements or making jokes that are self-deprecating. Make eye contact when talking because this creates intensity and stand up straight. This makes you stand out from other people who are shy or nervous around women and make her crave you.
7) Show attraction in small doses
Showing too much attraction all at once is a turn off because it’s obvious how much you want her and she loses interest because there’s no sense of excitement. You need to stop this from happening by being careful about how much attention you give her and let her know you like her but then pull away from her a little bit. This makes you mysterious because she’s going to wonder why you keep pulling away and will want to get more of your attention. She wants to know what else is on your mind and why you won’t share it with her.
8) Dress to create a mysterious mood
The way you dress can create a mysterious mood if you’re selective about what you wear. It’s normal to see guys wearing jeans and a t-shirt so wear something that will make you stand out in a good way. You can wear trousers, a dress shirt and jacket to look sophisticated and make her wonder what kind of job you have or where you’ve just come from. You can also wear clothing that can relate to a hobby, like jeans and hiking boots with a plaid shirt to make her think about what you do in your spare time. Make sure you wear clothes that are appropriate for the moment because you don’t want to stand out too much or make her think you’re eccentric.
9) Casually mention interesting plans or hobbies
Casually mentioning interesting plans or hobbies can make you mysterious because it’s something that can grab her attention without you doing anything out of the ordinary. When she asks what you have planned for the weekend you can casually mention going to a nearby town or art gallery then ask her what her plans are and keep the conversation on her. She won’t have a chance to ask for more information and during the weekend, she’s going to think about what you’re up to right now.
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