9 Tantric sex tips: How to enjoy Tantric sex with your girlfriend
Tantra is a word that means ‘woven together’ and one of the ways you can practice this with your girlfriend is through Tantric sex. This will bring you closer together through activities like meditation and yoni massage.
1) Dedicate time
Set the date ahead of time so you can look forward to it and think about how you want things to go. Talk to your girlfriend and share your thoughts and feelings so you’re on the same page. When it’s time turn off your phones, TV and anything else that can distract you.
2) Have the right mood
You need to set the right mood because this should be done in a quiet, relaxing environment so you can fully focus on each other. Turn down the lights, place candles around the room and put fresh sheets on the bed. Adjust the temperature so it’s warm and clean the room so you’re not distracted by anything.
3) Release tension
Before starting Tantric sex you need to release tension in a way that works for you. A warm bath can be relaxing or you can take a shower together as a way to ease into being together. If you’re the type who needs to burn energy you can exercise then take a quick shower so you smell fresh.
4) Share your feelings
Make an emotional connection by sharing your feelings in a loving way. Quietly tell her how much you love her and make it a personal experience by being detailed. Tell her what makes her special and why she makes you happy.
5) Use body language
From beginning to end you need to use body language as well as touch so you can enjoy all the sensations and emotions that can happen. Make eye contact and try to align your breathing with hers to increase the feeling of being part of one whole.
6) Sit on his lap
Move on to touching each other in a mildly sexual way to enhance arousal. Slowly stroke each other’s arms or legs to heighten your senses then have her sit in your lap so you’re facing each other. Hold her and feel how she feels in your arms and the weight of her body. You want to feel like you’re connected emotionally, spiritually and physically.
7) Spend time kissing
Foreplay is an important part of any sexual activity so spend time kissing. You want to do this slowly and sensually so focus on how soft her lips feel against yours and the light movement of her body as she breathes.
8) Give her a yoni massage
A yoni massage is a good way to show your girlfriend that you enjoy touching her in a way that’s all about her pleasure and you can heighten her sexual feelings by giving her multiple orgasms. A yoni massage involves you gently massaging her vagina by giving slowly stroking her g-spot or by rubbing her clitoris.
9) Make love
After building anticipation and making a deep, personal connection you can make love. This is different than sex because it’s about satisfying both of you and taking it slow so every sensation feels stronger.
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