9 Ways to get a woman addicted to you (even if you’re not attractive)
It is possible to get a woman addicted to you even if you’re not attractive because there are other ways to make yourself more appealing. You can work on your self confidence, have a kind personality and show her passion because these are traits that women are also attracted to.
1) Have self confidence
Woemn don’t want to date a guy with low self-esteem because it makes you seem like you’re someone who’s difficult to be around and it would be emotionally draining for them to date you. If your looks are affecting your self confidence then you can try focusing on your good qualities. Make a list of positive qualities like being a good listener, having a sense of humour or being a good friend and use this list to remind yourself about what a good person you are when you start doubting yourself. Soon you’re self confidence will be noticeable and women will want to spend time with you.
2) Show her passion
Dating isn’t based just on looks, it’s also about personality and how you make each other feel. If you show her passion then you’re going to make her feel sexy and desirable which is going to make her crazy about you. Make an effort on dates and take her to places that you know she’ll like and remember to be romantic because you want to set the right mood. After your date take her home and make love to her, spend time on foreplay and making her feel like the sexiest woman alive. You’re going to give her a rush and she won’t be able to get enough of it.
3) Be a kind, thoughtful person
You can use your personality to get her interested in you because women know that looks fade over time and they want to be with a man they have a deeper connection with. Women dream of Prince Charming so make yourself into her dream boyfriend by acting like a gentleman and having an attractive personality. You should do things like hold open doors, helping someone who needs it and listening when people speak because these are all gestures that show politeness and respect. You want her to know that you’re a thoughtful guy who doesn’t care about just himself.
4) Express your feelings for her
Show her that you truly love her by expressing your feelings for her because this will let her know that your feelings are real and that this relationship has a chance of being successful. A lot of men find it difficult to share their feelings so if you do this then you’re showing her that you’re not like other men and your willingness to be vulnerable will make her see you in a different way. She’ll want to be the lucky girl who gets to date you and will do what she can to make the relationship work because you’re the only guy she wants.
5) Have an active social life
Having an active social life can make you attractive because it makes you look outgoing and fun. Women want to date a guy they’ll have a good time with so join some clubs or go for regular trips to nearby towns as an affordable way to travel. Casually talk about the fun things you do because it’ll lead to interesting conversations which will keep her entertained and will make her think about what a good time she’ll have with you. She’ll want to be part of the fun and will want to spend more time with you because she finds you exciting.
6) Find interesting hobbies
Hobbies can give you something fun to do in your spare time and make you seem interesting because they give you something to talk about. Women don’t want to date a guy who does nothing but watch tv or play video games so find hobbies that are more interesting and will grab her attention. If you enjoy sports you could join a local team or volunteer as a referee or you could find a hobby that you can do solo or with other people like hiking or traveling. You can ask her to join you when you’re doing your hobby and she’ll like spending time with you because you’re actually doing an activity as a couple instead of focusing on your own thing.
7) Take time getting to know her
She’s going to thing you’re a great guy and want to spend more time with you if you make an effort to get to know her. Women are used to guys just trying to get with them for sex so if you take an interest in who she is as a person then she’s going to know you’re one of the good guys. When you talk to her give her your full attention and don’t do things like check your phone or get distracted by other women. Instead make eye contact, hold up your end of the conversation and show an interest in her job, hobbies and meeting her friends. When she knows you like her for who she is she’s going to feel special and will see you as an amazing guy who cares instead of some guy who’s just looking to hook up.
8) Have a sense of humour
A sense of humour is important because women don’t want to date a guy who’s serious all the time, they want a guy they can laugh with and feel relaxed around. If you learn to laugh about small things instead of getting upset about them then she’s going to see you’re a laidback guy who knows not to get upset at the little things and only worry about things that are important. This adds to your personality and will make her feel more comfortable around you because she won’t be on edge and worried about you getting angry all the time. If she feels good around you then she’ll want to be with you and will spend as much time as she can with you.
9) Make yourself more attractive
You can make small changes that can make a big difference to how attractive you are and make women find you irresistible. Starting an exercise regime can help you lose weight and have a more toned and muscular body, have some nice clothes that you save for date nights and go for regular haircuts so you look presentable. You should also take care of small details like keeping your facial hair and nails neatly trimmed and making sure you act with confidence while still acting like a gentleman. Women will look past physical appearance so make yourself perfect in every other way because she’ll notice you.
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
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