9 Ways to meet and pick up women in supermarkets & grocery stores
It’s possible to pick up women anywhere, even in supermarkets and grocery stores, if you know how to flirt and understand what women want.If you play your cards right you can go home with more than just your shopping, you could also have a hot date with a sexy woman.
1) Let her go ahead of you in line
What women want is men who are thoughtful and respectful so if you want to make a good impression you can be a gentleman and let her go ahead of you in line. This works great, especially if it’s a long line because it’ll make her notice you and you’ll have time to start a conversation with her. You should start by making a casual comment about how busy it is then start talking about her, asking her name and mention not seeing her before. Talk until you get to the cashier then ask for her number so you can call her later.
2) Don’t use pick up lines
Supermarkets are casual places so it’s not appropriate to use obvious pick up lines like you would at a bar where women are expecting you to use them. The best way to break the ice is by keeping it light and friendly so she won’t feel uncomfortable. A simple “Hey, how’s it going?” can be enough to get her attention and if she continues the conversation you’ll know fairly quickly that she likes you. If the conversation stalls you can use food items to keep it going by asking her opinion on something which will make her feel like you care about what she thinks.
3) Don’t hang around the store
If you spend too much time hanging around the supermarket then people are going to notice you and not in a good way. You should only pick up women at supermarkets and grocery stores when you’re actually there to shop otherwise they’re going to think you’re a creepy, desperate guy. What you need to do is take your time shopping and discreetly check out women so it’s not obvious you’re there looking to hook up. If you don’t see anyone you like then wait for another shopping trip instead of asking out someone just because you want to be successful otherwise you’ll end up going out with someone who isn’t a great match and you’ll be looking for another hook up in a few days.
4) Help her pick out food
A good way to approach a woman without coming on too strong is by offering to help her pick out food if you see her trying to decide which fruit or vegetable is ripe. You can do this in a friendly, laid-back way by telling her you used to never know which was best to buy but you’ve gotten advice from friends and now you know what to pick. This makes you sound smart, social and helpful which are all qualities that women like in men. If you’re unsure of how to pick ripe fruit then you can do the opposite and ask her for advice. While doing this you could tell her what you’re planning on cooking with it and say that you wish you weren’t single because it would be great to have a smart girlfriend like her.
5) Casually mention your interest in cooking
Women love men who can cook because they like men who can take care of themselves and they hate the stereotypical idea of women always being in the kitchen. A good time to mention your interest in cooking is when you’re doing a big grocery shop because she’ll notice the food and wonder why you’re buying so much or mention it when you’re buying a specialty item and asking her for advice. You can tell her that you love trying new recipes and when she asks if you’re a good cook, you can flirt and tell her that she can decide for herself if she’d like to come over for dinner. A homemade dinner is romantic and if you come across like a sweet, sincere guy it’s an offer she might take you up on.
6) Don’t act like you’re at a club or bar
The atmosphere at a supermarket is completely different from the one at a bar and you need to change your behaviour to reflect this. How to flirt at a supermarket is more subtle because it’s not meant to be a place where you hook up and women who are shopping won’t like it if you’re too aggressive or flirting too much. You want her to think that this isn’t something you do all the time and you’re only asking her out because she caught your eye and you’re taking a chance with her.
7) Go to busy and popular supermarkets
You’ll be more successful if you go to supermarkets and grocery stores that are busy instead of small local stores because they’ll have more women shopping there. A busier store will also stop you from standing out if you’re taking your time which will stop it from looking like you’re loitering in the hopes of meeting someone. You also need to choose the right time to shop because if you go in the evening people will be in a rush from finishing work and wanting to go home so they won’t be in the mood for your flirting. You should go in the evening when single women are doing their shopping and don’t need to be quick so they can go home to look after their children.
8) Make an effort with your appearance
What women want is a man who is mature and responsible enough to take care of his appearance and understands that first impressions always matter. You’ll never get a woman interested in you if you go shopping in wrinkled or dirty jeans and t-shirt because you’ll look lazy and sloppy. You need to take care of small details like shaving and running a comb through your hair.
9) Keep it short and sweet
Grocery shopping is a chore for most people and they want to get it done as quickly as possible, they don’t want to spend ages talking to a guy who’s wasting their time. This means you need to make your flirty encounter short and sweet. Make it clear that you’re interested in her, have a nice little conversation then ask her out on a date or exchange numbers. This should never take more than five minutes unless she keeps the conversation going because you don’t want to lose her interest.
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
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