How to have an affair and not get caught
When you want to have an affair you want it to be fun and full of discreet sex. Your partner should never find out about it but a lot of marriages end once someone is caught having an affair. You don’t want that to happen to you so be smart about the person you take as your lover and do whatever you can to avoid getting caught.
When choosing who to have an affair with you should decide the type of person you’re looking for before contacting anyone. It’s best to go with someone that you’ve never met before and are unlikely to run into while out with your wife. If you have an affair with someone who lives in your neighbourhood or who’s friends with your wife too then there’s a higher chance of your wife finding out. Your wife could run into you when you’re out with your lover or the lover may tell your wife about the affair if things end between the two of you. Stick to seeing someone that lives far enough away that no one you know will see you together and make sure that there is no connection between your wife and lover.
It’s also a good idea to cheat with someone who is also married so they know how important it is to keep the affair a secret. They’ll have something to lose too and will be just as careful as you not to get caught. When you take your lover out somewhere or if you meet them at a hotel make sure you never use a credit card. Always pay for things in cash when it comes to your lover and give her the money if she books the hotel room for you. If you use a credit card then there’s the risk of your wife reading the bill when it comes in so don’t leave a paper trail. You also need to be careful about leaving an electronic trail. Never give your lover the home phone number and always delete anything she sends to your cell phone. A better idea would to be to use one of those cheap pre-paid cell phones and don’t leave it lying around for your wife to find. Keep it in your desk at work or at home with things that your wife never goes through like your briefcase or gym bag. Never meet at your house and try to avoid telling them your exact address.
If things end between you the last thing you want is your lover showing up. When you hook up either meet at her place or go to a hotel and do it at a time that won’t make your wife suspicious. Don’t cancel plans with your wife or start coming home late from work and try to keep your schedule as normal as possible. If you start making changes then she’ll notice and wonder what’s going on. Meet your lover when the wife is busy doing her own thing, such as spending the day with her friends or take the afternoon off work. Make the affair fit into your life while making sure that your wife thinks everything’s normal.
Marriages get boring and sometimes you need to spice things up. Instead of trying to fix your marriage that might be too broken it’s easier to keep things the way there are at home and look elsewhere for excitement. Have an affair and feel a little spark back in your life but make sure to be careful. Don’t choose just anyone and always cover your tracks. You want it to be something that lasts for as you long it to without damaging your marriage.
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
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