The best way to ask your partner for sex on adult dating sites
Nearly everyone with a profile on an adult dating site is looking for sex dating but they don’t come out and say that. They don’t want to turn people off and keep things clean by saying they’re looking for a relationship. It can be difficult to know what to say in order to take things from a relationship vibe to a hot night of sex but you just have to know the right way to do it.
The best way to ask for sex on an adult dating site is to not ask for it. If you come right and say you want to have sex with them it makes it sound like that’s all your interested in. No one wants to be the first one who makes a move and will be waiting for the other person to bring it up but the wrong approach can ruin things. Ease both of you into the awkward moment of sex with a stranger by hinting at it. Make it obvious what you’re trying to suggest without being rude. You could say something like “So how would you like the night to end?” or “Would you be interested in spending the night at my place?”
Either of those sentences will give you a much better chance at having sex than saying “I really want to have sex with you so when do you want to meet?” If they’re interested then set up a time and place to meet. If they hesitate then push a bit more without making them feel uncomfortable. Say “I can’t wait to get to know you better.” or ” I think we could have a lot of fun together. Don’t you think so too?” This shows them that you’re serious and not the type of person who just moves onto the next person. If you already know when you’re meeting then send a message about some things you’d like to do with them. Keep it soft at first with “Thought of you earlier and it was distracting. Can’t wait for our first kiss.” There’s a hint of romance which is a great lead into sex. Follow up with “Not going to make me wait much longer, are you? I’ve been dying to touch you.” This is more direct and tells them that you’re ready to move things along. Let them set the pace after that and go with it by matching their openness. If they want to set up a meeting then tell them when you’re free.
Try to make it fit into your schedule because if you suggest another time then they might not want to wait. If they want to have cyber-sex for a bit then do it so they can become comfortable with you. If they get to know you then it’ll be easier for them to have sex with you because you’ll feel less like a stranger. You want them to be turned on and wanting to have sex with you on the first date so be polite while slowly moving towards sex.
When you’re looking for sex dating on an adult dating site and have found a partner you’re interested in then avoid coming across like a sex addict. Take things slow and keep sex on the edge of the conversation until the other person wants it just as much as you do. Let things happen naturally and you can have a hot night of sex just by asking in the right way.
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
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