How to get her to masturbate for you
Female masturbation is a turn on for many men because it’s something that a lot of women are too shy to do in front of their partners. If you want to see your girlfriend play with her pussy and clit for you then you’re going to have to coax her into doing it to show her that it isn’t something she needs to be uncomfortable with. There are a few different techniques to try so see which one works for you.
You should try sharing your fantasies with your partner so they know that it’s something you’re interested in because she may be open to the idea. This should be done in a relaxed way so she doesn’t feel like you’re pressuring her into doing it because that might put her off the idea. Instead, share let her share some of her fantasies with you then you tell her a couple of yours. Mention a few things so it doesn’t seem like you’re too focused on seeing her masturbate and that your talk is about exploring sexual fantasies together.
Women get embarrassed by female masturbation because they’re taught that it’s not something they should do, that only men indulge in that type of behaviour. You can ease her into it by helping her so it’s seen as a sexy moment between the two of you instead of her doing something for you. Hold her and kiss her while putting your hand on top of hers and moving it over her body. As her fingers brush over her most sensitive areas listen to the noises she makes and when she gasps or moans whisper in her ear how sexy she looks. This will make her feel good and more likely to keep going.
Mutual masturbation could be a way to stop her from being embarrassed because all the attention won’t be on her. It also might turn her on to see how excited you are by her. A good way to do this is by watching porn together and you could get things started by touching yourself. Once she notices ask her if she wants to touch herself too if she hasn’t started doing so. Keep the tone light and gently encourage her as she explores her body until she’s gotten in the mood.
Sex toys is a good way to get her masturbate. You could buy her a regular vibrator or a specialty vibrator like ones that are meant to stimulate her clit. A lot of women need their clit stimulated in order to orgasm and your partner will know just how to use the toy on herself to make it feel good so getting her a toy can be an easy way to help her. You could use the toy on her to get her excited then ask her to show you how she likes to use it on herself.
Woman masturbation is something that is seen as being unspoken because good girls don’t do things like that. You can get your girlfriend to touch herself for you by showing her that it’s okay to enjoy it and that you want to see her masturbating. Once she knows that you won’t judge her for it you can start helping her become comfortable with it by engaging in mutual masturbation or using sex toys.
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