Dating someone who travels a lot (10 Creative Ways)
Dating a traveller can be difficult because you spend a lot of time away from each other and staying in touch can become boring if you stick to a routine. You get used to seeing their emails or talking on cam and the excitement fades. This affects your relationship and you drift apart until you realize that a breakup is probably where things are headed. You can avoid this from happening by coming up with creative way to stay in touch and have minimal damage done to your dating life when you’re in love with a traveller.
1) Plan local trips as a couple
If you don’t enjoy being a traveller as much as your partner does or if you can’t afford it then you can plan local trips that you can do as a couple. This lets you spend time together, they get their need for travelling satisfied and since they’re short trips they’re easy to fit into your schedule. You can have these be day trips that are about sightseeing a nearby town or romantic evening trips to go stargazing in the countryside. These local trips will help you create special moments together and you won’t feel like you’re missing out as much when they’re on their solo trips.
2) Send flirty texts
It’s easy for a traveller to get caught up in the moment because they’re somewhere new and want to go sightseeing or need to focus on work if it’s a business trip. You can keep the spark alive in your relationship and get a little bit of their attention by sending them texts throughout their trip. You need to send a mix of regular ones and flirty ones so they get a rush when they see you’ve texted them. Tell them you’re thinking of them and can’t wait to go on cam with them later on or say that you had a sexy dream about them last night.
3) Try cyber sex
Your sex life is going to be strained when you’re dating a traveller because you spend time away from each other and there’s a chance of one of you being tempted into having an affair to get your sexual needs met. You can be creative with keeping your sex life active and monogamous by trying cybersex. You can make it interesting by doing something different each time and can do roleplaying, using sex toys or buying them an app controlled toy so you can still interact with them during cybersex.
4) Experience their trip together
A fun way to date a traveller and still feel like an important part of their life is by experiencing their trip with them through the use of technology. When they have some spare time and are going sightseeing they can call you and stream what’s going on around them while you watch and talk to them. This makes you feel like you’re there with them and you get to see a place you’ve probably never been before.
5) Send them a care package
Sending a care package to a traveller is a thoughtful gesture to show them that you’re thinking of them. You can buy pre-made ones online and have it sent to them or you can show a more personal touch by putting it together yourself. Select a variety of items that show them you thought about what to get them, like their favourite chocolate bar or a paperback book by an author they frequently read. This makes them feel loved and is going to strengthen the relationship even though you’re not physically together.
6) Spend the day together in a cyber way
Spending the day together is still something you can do when you’re dating a traveller, you just need technology and to plan ahead. Your partner can wake you up with a phone call and you can talk while you make and eat breakfast together. Later you can pick a movie or tv show that both of you have access to watch then you can eat dinner together. This about spending time together as a couple and doing things you’d normally do if they were with you so it feels like a regular day.
7) Send naughty pictures
When you don’t have time for cyber sex or don’t feel comfortable with doing that just yet you can settle for sending naughty pictures instead. Be flirty about it and don’t send them a picture of you completely nude because you want to get their imagination running wild. You can take pictures of you partially clothed or send a picture of just your face with you giving them a sexy smile and a caption that says “Thinking of doing bad things to you.”. They’re going to miss you like crazy and when they’re back in town they won’t be able to keep their hands off you.
8) Have a romantic gift delivered to them
Sending a romantic gift to your partner when they’re in their traveller mood can be a way of reminding them that you love and miss them. It can be something simple like flowers or it can be more sexual like a sex toy or lingerie for them to wear while you’re having cyber-sex together. Your romantic gift should be one special item and be sent in the middle of their trip because if you send it too soon then they won’t be missing you as much and if you send it too late then it won’t be as meaningful because they know they’ll be seeing you soon.
9) Go on cyber dates
You can still have date nights when you’re with a traveller, you just have to find ways to make it more special than your usual cam sessions. Both of you can turn the lights down low, light some candles and have dinner together while you talk about what you’ll do when they come back. You can also go on a nighttime picnic together by setting up your phone and having a small meal outside while they do the same thing.
10) Surprise them at their hotel
One thing you can do to keep your relationship strong is on rare occasions surprising them with a visit. You can joke that you’re going to become a traveller too and catch up with them so they don’t take you seriously and are genuinely surprised when you show up or you can keep it a secret. Your trip can be an overnight one or for a few days and you can go sightseeing together. This should be quality time and help ease the loneliness both of you feel when you’re apart.
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
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