The 11 golden rules of hooking up at your friend’s wedding
Hooking up at a friend’s wedding is easy if you know what to do so you seem like a great catch. You need to know the type of women to flirt with, how to exude sexual attraction and how make sure how to sure she can’t take her eyes off you.
1) Find out who will be there
Your friend will know everyone who’s invited to the wedding so ask them if there’s any single women there that you might be interested in. He’s your friend and will want to help you out so he’ll tell you which women to go for and which ones to avoid. At the wedding you can even have him introduce you to her when everyone’s at the reception so he can help break the ice. They might also know someone who’s looking for a date for the wedding and he can get the two of you in touch beforehand. This way you can get to know each other better and you can sweep her off her feet when you finally meet in person.
2) Use positive body language
Positive body language like smiling, laughing and making eye contact will show women that you’re easy going and that you’re interested in them. Don’t make eye contact for too long because you don’t want to seem creepy. Just glance in their direction long enough for them to notice you, give them a smile then look elsewhere. Spend some time talking to someone else then make your way over to them if they seemed like they were interested in you so that they don’t feel like you’re rushing them.
3) Have fun instead of focusing on hooking up
It will make you seem better if you have fun and things happen naturally with someone instead of you hitting on every single woman there. You also need to make sure you don’t let your nerves get in the way and spend too much time by yourself because women love confidence. Have fun by doing any activities available at the reception like dancing or singing so you seem like a fun guy to be around.
4) Have some conversation topics ready
Starting a conversation with a stranger can be awkward because you don’t know what to say so it’s a good idea to have some conversation topics ready before you go to the wedding. You want to avoid anything controversial like religion, politics and hot news topics because you don’t want to upset anyone. It’s better to stick to neutral topics like interesting movies you’d like to see because this can turn into a date, hobbies or how they know the bride and groom so that you have something to talk about and bond over.
5) Be good on the dance floor
There’s always sexual attraction attached to a man who’s a good dance because it makes him seem sophisticated, educated and romantic. If you’ve never danced before you can take a couple of cheap classes at a local community center or ask someone you know who dances to teach you. When you’re at the wedding wait for a slow, romantic song to play then ask someone if she’d like to dance with you. If she’s shy or embarrassed you can tell her it’s okay, you’ve only just learned how to dance and she’s probably better at it then you are. She’ll feel flattered and more confident in herself so she’s more likely to say “Yes.”
6) Toast the happy couple
You can toast the happy couple to bring attention to yourself and casually mention that you’re single so women know you’re available. You should start by saying nice things about the happy couple, wishing them well and sharing a sweet personal story so you seem like a good and caring friend. You can then mention being single by saying that even though you’re single you hope that one day you’ll fall in love with a special woman just like your friend did.
7) Dress nicely to improve sexual attraction
Dressing nicely will always get women to notice you and feel a sexual attraction towards you because it shows that you made an effort, you take pride in your appearance and that you’re not lazy or dirty. If you have a big social circle and go to weddings regularly then invest in a high quality suit so you know it fits you properly and looks good. If you’re renting then go for the best option they have because women know what quality clothes look like. Make sure your shoes are polished and that accessories like cuff links, your watch and tie match with what you’re wearing.
8) Casually mention being single
By casually mentioning being single you’re letting them know you’re probably looking to date and that you might be interested in them. It’s important to do it casually so you don’t seem desperate because this will turn women off. If they seem to be by themselves then wait for them to say it first then say “Me too.” You could also say that you weren’t sure if you’d have anyone to talk too because you didn’t have a date and didn’t know many people there.
9) Listen and be understanding to other single people
Weddings make single people feel lonely and they’ll probably want to complain or talk about it as a way of letting off steam. If a woman seems bothered by being single be supportive and tell her that you understand and feel the same way. Listen when she talks about how she feels and say nice things like if you had known her that you would have loved to be her date. You can add that maybe next time there’s a wedding you could go together then suggest getting to know each other better.
10) Decide on one or two women before making your move
You’re going to be going home alone if you spend the entire wedding go from woman to woman, flirting with them until you finally get lucky. People will notice you doing this so you need to take another approach. Spend time mingling and talking to various people while checking out the room while deciding who interests you. When you have one or two picked out approach the first one and flirt with her. If she likes you then keep going. If she doesn’t then wait awhile and try with the second woman.
11) Find a connection with them
Finding a connection with a woman you feel sexual attraction to could lead to you hooking up because she’ll feel like she knows you. When you’re talking to her find out about her hobbies, favourite movies or tv shows and where she likes to go out for nice meals. When there’s something you have in common talk about it with her and build the connection from there.
She is working as writer for diferent websites. She has published many hand-books about adult dating and relationships.
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